(Closed) Anyone else changing their wedding style vision to please other people?

posted 6 years ago in Dress
Post # 3
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3943 posts
Honey bee

I am very easily a push-over. I am actually considering going dress shopping alone for the first time because I am so easily persuaded by others opinions.

Post # 4
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304 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

well you got it already..but its a veil yes but still you did it to please/make mommy happy . ..so far im buying what i like even though my mom always says her opinion and shes with me everywhere lol.even though my mom thinks everything looks good; im buying what i feel i need to, its so stressing,sord of good too not having Fiance side here lol. i guess they’;; blame me if one thing doesnt look good (:

 

Post # 6
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536 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

I have been married once before, and my first wedding was all my mom and MIL! It wasn’t a true vision of me. That was a mistake. This wedding is entirely a reflection of me and FI! I couldn’t be happier. Just go with your heart and even if your heart says to make mom happy, that’s okay too!! Just be happy with your decision and move onto the next one. Good luck!

Post # 8
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304 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@SleepingWithNuns: who cares move on haha.read again maybe you;ll get the fact how i mentioned im having only my side like my mom coming with me but im ending up with what i choose and its a little better for me to not have my fiancee;s side not here so no conflict occurs on that side.

 my gosh i hate to fix even little grammer mistakes so what get the idea duhh whats the big deal://

i hope you can read better now; so sorry you couldnt get any sense out of it (lol)

Post # 9
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Bumble bee

@Merelton: I almost did while dress shopping. the first dress i tried on I just knew it was the one, it made me feel like a princess and that’s all i ever wanted on my wedding day.. but I tried 10 dresses after that one, and it came down to the first and last one.. my 2 maids of honor were going crazy over the last one, and it was beautiful and very fancy, but it didn’t feel like me.. so I decided to go home and not buy anything..

then i went back another day with my mom and stepdad and I knew the first one was my dress ๐Ÿ™‚ don’t listen to other’s opinion.. it’s YOUR day. wear what YOU like ๐Ÿ™‚ hope that helps.

Post # 11
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1750 posts
Buzzing bee

@Merelton: It’s a veil and a belt, these are very minor adjustments. It’s okay to do things to please others sometimes, especially your mom.

Post # 12
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1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Bella88 Are you serious? My mouth actually dropped when I read what you wrote to SleepingWithNuns . I know you get upset when people call you out on you style of writing, your grammer, spacing your paragraphs far apart and holding down on the keys when you type words. When I read your post I didn’t understand it either. I know you say you type fast but when you skip over words they don’t form an understandable sentance. Do you read what you write? Does it make sence to you?

I’m not trying to get on your case or make you mad. I have seen how you write but if you unwilling to slow down and make your sentances understandable people will continue to say “What”?

 Personally I’m here to share stories, give opinions and get ideas but I also want my fellow bee’s to understand what I write. It would be a waste of time if I got upset at people and had to re-write it just to get my point across.

Post # 13
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4485 posts
Honey bee

Absolutely not. If anything, your guests will wonder why you changed your style for the one day. If you do stray from your regular style, you will have regrets. You only get married once (for most people) so be true to who you are. If someone doesn’t like it, too bad.

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