(Closed) Anyone else concerned about some psycho trying to bust up the wedding? vent…

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
2288 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

That is not healthy at all. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this! I don’t have anything like that going on, but I highly recommend that you start documenting this behavior. It’s not normal and if you have cause to think he may hurt you, you may have grounds for a restraining order.

Post # 4
2634 posts
Sugar bee

I’m in total agreement with MissHelen.  Restraining order time.  This is bordering on harassment/stalking and that is NOT good.

Post # 5
2207 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

NO! That is ridiculous!

You didn’t ask for my advice, but mine would be to spring for some security, even if it is just a casual friend on the beefy side who will watch out for this guy. A little bit of money spent on this could buy a whole lot of peace of mind.

Post # 6
1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I totally agree with the above. Although, I don’t think you can get a restraining order unless you can show that your well-being and safety is being threatened.

Otherwise, I would contact your venue to see if they’ve encountered anything like that and what, if anything, they can do to help on the day of. It could be that the security staff at the hall or wherever is given a photo of the expected crasher so they know who is NOT supposed to be there.

Post # 7
46 posts
  • Wedding: October 2010

I say buy some security. I would not get a restraining order, though, because, frighteningly, that makes true psychos escalate in action (so says my lawyer parents who deal with criminal cases like this). Do you live with your FI?

edit: and I don’t mean to alarm you! This jerk is probably trying to bully you and your friends into giving him attention. He’ll probably get scared when he hears you’re getting security for the wedding and stay away from the ceremony on.

Post # 8
5388 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

Sorry you are dealing with this. I agree with the previous answers. Hopefully he will back off!

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