(Closed) Anyone else consider themselves an "active lurker" on the Bee?

posted 4 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 16
346 posts
Helper bee

I check weddingbee about once, sometimes twice a day! I just don’t post that much 🙂 I enjoy reading the posts and people’s comments, sometimes my thoughts have already been said! But maybe I’ll start posting a bit more now 🙂

Post # 17
460 posts
Helper bee

Eeek totally me! I haven’t posted in ages and can feel myself turning into a full on lurker bee! I too click the helpful button a lot and do a lot of voting on polls. I really enjoy reading the dramatic posts from OPs then skipping all the responses and looking for that green post a few pages later when OP comes back to update! I don’t knwo why I enjoy all the drama and crazy situations so much – maybe it’s like watching a soap on TV…

Post # 18
251 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Have been a member of the hive since 2013 but post very rarely because other bees have already posted what I would’ve said anyway. 

Post # 19
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2017 - Zonnevanger, Paarl, South Africa

I am on the bees every single day and have only posted once… Total active lurker here!<img src=

Post # 20
524 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

I lurk.  Every day, all day. 

I lurk because if I posted a majority of what I want to say in threads I would have been banned a long time ago. 

Post # 21
230 posts
Helper bee

Yep.. I go through phases, I’m more likely to reply if I’m browsing on my laptop.. Which isnt often. I enjoy reading everything though, tucking all the wisdom away for when my time comes 😃

Post # 22
308 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015 - City Hall NYC

Me!  I post more now that i’m married lol

Post # 23
1066 posts
Bumble bee

I definitely lurk more than I post! I’m also much more likely to post while I’m at work on my laptop than I am at home on my phone/ipad unless I’m feeling particularly opinionated. 

  • This reply was modified 4 years, 4 months ago by  Rafissch.
Post # 24
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2015

Me too! Phew- glad I’m not alone! I find myself starting replies to posts and then deleting them as unnecessary and bound to be echoed by hundreds of other bees. I linger on the periphery, watching, learning, but seldom commenting. <img src=

Post # 25
1651 posts
Bumble bee

I dont post my own stuff to much, but I do read the Bee everyday and all day at work. 

Im  afraid to chime in on posts because sometimes the “swarm” of bees can attack at anytime. So I try to be careful what I say, so Im usually short/sweet and to the point.

Post # 26
3242 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2014

I don’t count at all now. I post constantly. But I used to be a lurker! For over a year. Then I dove in and I love it! Ha

Post # 28
70 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

I lurked for quite a while when I was in the waiting phase, I found it helpful to read about people going through the same emotions as I was. I signed up for an account after I got engaged but still just mostly lurk…

Post # 29
5025 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2017

That’s me!

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