(Closed) Anyone else depressed that your wedding is over?

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

@CruiseWedding2010: I DO CRY!!! *laugh* I know how you feel, sometimes i get really down, and my wedding was four months ago now! I became a wedding planner since the wedding and have worked on weddings, thinking it would releive that feeling but instead im just like “ahhhh lets do it again!” Your right though, it was lots of fun, I would do it again in a heart beat! ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Aww ๐Ÿ™‚

I honestly was glad my wedding was over. Yes I had a great time and wish I could do it all over but at the same time, I’m glad to have my life back where my weekends and evenings aren’t always full of wedding stuff.

Try scrapbooking your wedding or doing something with your pictures to relive the day.

I do not scrapbook by any means but I did one for the wedding day, then I put a bunch of the pictures in an album where they just slide in (so I can get at them in 25+ yrs) and next I’m going to scrapbook all the wedding events leading upto the wedding. Shower, stagette, dress shopping, etc…

Post # 6
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@CruiseWedding2010: Ive been married for 3.5 months and I feel the same way! I loved my wedding and just wish there could be another day that is that awesome! I dont want to do all the planning part again either but definitely the wearing a gorgeous gown and having everyone I love in the same place! I also have yet to get a wedding photo printed or start on an album!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I totally get what everyone is saying. I’m grateful that it’s over AND I miss it. Mostly what I want is to go back and see everything from different angles. Like…put it on a holodeck from Star Trek to look at every angle, every perspective, all the things that I missed.

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I want to do it again too ! So I can make better what I didn’t particularly like, like my dress !

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

No way!!!  So glad its over.  I hated being a bride but absolutely love being a newlywed. 

Post # 10
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

I loved my wedding! But I am so glad we don’t have to do it again! haha. I’ve never been so stressed in my life.

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I totally agree with @MissHelen: 

I’m both glad that it’s over and wish I could do it all again.  Mostly I’m sad because it was so hectic and there are many things I would have done differently to make it run more smoothly.

I was so stressed out on my wedding day that I felt like throwing up.

Also, I’m not too happy with any of the pictures that were taken because we didn’t have time for those nice posed shots.  But because of that, we’re getting all dressed up again just to get some nice wedding portraits taken.

Can’t wait to put that wedding dress back on (even if it’s just for a photo session)! =0)

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

Our wedding took 5 minutes to “plan” (running to city hall to get license, calling the JOP on one phone and family on the other phone), running to supermarket to grab flowers.  The ceremony was 5 minutes long.  Nothing to be sad over since I had zero time to plan or even think about it!!!  Since we only had my parents, my brother, his kids, DH’s parents and his sister at the ceremony, we took everyone out to dinner at our favourite restaurant to celebrate.  It was like having a holiday dinner together, which was great because we get to “relive” that feeling when everyone’s together for dinner.   

The day was over in a flash, there was zero stress and it was fantastic!  It was the perfect wedding for us!

Post # 13
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

@BanditGirl: Lol I just realized your avatar is still the Pot Roast picture!!

Post # 14
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Not at all.  I’m glad its over.  On the other hand, I am super depressed our two week honeymoon is over.  Fortunately we booked another two weeks and are going back in March – yay!!!  The wedding was way too much stress though.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I loved every single second of planning our wedding and the wedding. Everytime I come across something from our wedding and put it away I am so sad. My Mom and I are really close and talked about the wedding multiple times a day leading up to it and even she is sad. She said she finds herself feeling jealous of other moms who are just starting the process. It was amazing, I would do it again in a heartbeat.

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