- 6 years ago
I can sort of relate. We have made a hypothetical guest list, picked colors, looked at venues online, made a hypothetical budget, and photographers we like. He wanted to propose a couple months ago, but I hadn’t picked out the ring I liked yet, and once I did it’ll take till Christmas to arrive. He wanted to be 100% sure that i tried the ring on beforehand and fell in love with it. He really wants to propose with a ring (even though I said it didn’t matter), so I know it’ll be around the holidays. That being said, we want to get married in JUNE, which gives us only 6 months to plan once we are officially engaged (not even actually).
If that’s the case for you, planning a super quick wedding, I say it’s fair you’d wanna be on the planning ASAP. But if you are going to have the typical 12-18 month engagement, then I suggest you slow down a bit and just enjoy the engagement 🙂 Let the stress of planning come later!