(Closed) Anyone else feel like a slacker??

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
18643 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

I felt like that too!  I didn’t really DIY very much for the wedding because I didn’t have a lot of free time so my wedding wasn’t unique like everyone else!

Post # 4
1149 posts
Bumble bee

Awww, I’m sorry you feel this way! 


I work here so I kind of feel the opposite  Wink


BUT I will say this — if you are finding ideas / inspiration, helping people out or getting help – you’re totally not slacking! 

If it really bothers you maybe you can make the site work FOR you instead of feeling like it’s working against you….for example, maybe put your To-Do list into you Bio to help you keep organized? 


Post # 5
1149 posts
Bumble bee

Oh, also on the idea of wanting to personalize your wedding more – maybe you can tell us about some hobbies you and Fiance enjoy and that will spark some Hive creativity?  Smile

Post # 6
900 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I feel like a slacker in the rest of my life…because on here = not doing anything else!  Wedding related or not!  But I will still be here….aaaaahhhh….addiction.

Post # 7
948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

Yeah, I totally do- but being here keeps me motivated and avoiding my slacking tendancies.  I’m definitely not as on top of everything as my Future Sister-In-Law was when she was planning her wedding, but I also have a hard time *really* caring about some of the formal details. 

Post # 9
12134 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

You don’t have to DIY to make your wedding special and unique!  And keep in mind that for most of your guests, your wedding probably was/will be unique to them.  Most of them don’t read the blogs, so they have no idea what all is out there in wedding land.  Something as simple as a square-shaped cake could really wow a guest who’s never seen one before!  You can personalize your wedding by music selection, wardrobe choices, etc. 

Post # 11
2719 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

That’s pretty much how my break went. I was planning on getting lots of small projects out of the way, and I spent time here, or just looking online.

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