(Closed) Anyone else feel like they’re already married?

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 32
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277 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I really didn’t expect it to be different.  We’ve been together 11 years and lived together for 6 but subconciously it did make a difference.  While nothing “changed” in our day to day life.  I suddenly felt trapped and resentful which I did not expect.  I guess before I had freedeom,”I can leave at anytime” and now it’s ” I can’t leave”.

Post # 33
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218 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I definitely feel like we’re already married, even though I’m so far away, we take care of everything together: home renovations, healthcare issues, issues surrounding his girls (which he quite often reminds me are “our”girls)and their mom. We’ve been together 3yrs and it feels like a decade…in a good way

Post # 34
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1267 posts
Bumble bee

I’ve been married before and now live with my bf of 7 years (we’ve lived together for 6) so I have a unique perspective.  It’s totally the same.  We share a bank account, credit cards, a dog – so there is no change, really, except for the box I check on Mrs. or Ms., lol!

 

Post # 35
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20 posts
Newbee

Yes, feels like we are married but we sure haven’t been together as long as many of you have been! 🙂  We have only been together just over 2 years, living together for 1.5.

We share everything financially and emotionally, and he truly is my best friend.  The only thing I foresee changing upon getting married is we will have the same last name and we will start our 2 legged family.  Right now our only “kids” are 2 cats, 4 dogs, and 2 horses. 🙂

PitBulLover- your posts were wonderfully sweet!  I smiled when I read them.

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