(Closed) Anyone else feel like this?

posted 4 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
157 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: Beach

Lovely really lovely. I would have loved to do a city hall wedding my fiancé and I are eloping but even that takes a lot of research. City hall would be so cute and elegant or whatever you want. 

Post # 3
364 posts
Helper bee

I think I kind of know where you’re coming from. I’m not engaged yet but my bf and I have looked at rings and plan to get engaged in the next few months. We’ve decided on an October 2018 wedding. In theory I want a big, romantic, traditional wedding but the more I think about it and realize all the planning, work and money that will have to go in to it, the more it sounds like a nightmare. I’m not sure I want to spend $30k on 8 hours. Chances are I’ll be tired, or I’ll have a headache, or my feet will hurt, or I’ll just be too stressed to enjoy it anyway. The idea of eloping sounds more and more appealing to me. But I have a giant family on both my mom and dad’s side and I’m worried i would be letting them down by not throwing a fancy wedding. I’d way rather put the money towards a long, romantic honeymoon. Just saying that makes me feel selfish. 

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