- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2010
Originally I just wanted to have a registry office weddding and then a big party later when we could afford it… but when our parents (especially my mother) freaked out about the idea, and his parents told us they would pay for it we went ahead and planned a small wedding. There is nothing inherently wrong with the wedding plans, and I’m trying not to get to hung up on little annoyances (like my mother’s insistance on baking a 6 layer cake with three different flavors) but I’m finding I’m simply not excited about it.
I’d be countinng down the days for getting my visa extention (so I can start working!) if I knew when that would be as being able to be here legally and living fully with my man means more to me than just being a Mrs.
I’ve been struggling a lot lately with missing all my friends (only 4 can make it to the wedding) and the circumstances making me too poor to participate in my hobbies, and I find most of the time I’m wishing we had just had the legal part done with.
I sort of figured I might be excited by now, but I’m more so turning into an emotional mess. Anyone else dealing with this sort of thing? Anyone else moving to another country?