(Closed) Anyone else feeling anxious???

posted 4 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Sugar Beekeeper

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myardley :  

You know I dont believe anybody went to the altar thinking  “oh well I can always get divorced’  so i don’t mean to be flippant when I say even if  marriage doesn’t last one’s  whole life, it doesn’t mean  you have failed.

My first marriage didn’t  last and I was heartbroken at the time, but it was emphatically  not a failure ,as  nothing is really wasted time I think, where love is involved. Nothing guarantees perfection   of course, and committing to any relationship is an act of of faith .

Your  parents marriage  produced you,  so there’s a success right there!

 

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Helper bee

I think feeling anxious about this can be a positive. It says that this means a lot to you, and you really WANT it to work, and thats important in a relationship. Try not to get too overwelmed – your relationship is not your parents. The troubles in their marriage are not something that you have to inherit. And as Elderbee says, a relationship not working out doesnt mean you have failed. 

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