(Closed) Anyone else found sex easier after marriage

posted 3 years ago in Intimacy
Post # 2
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5175 posts
Bee Keeper

nerdybride121:  I don’t have any advice for you as I never had that issue.  I see no problem with you initiating sex some of the time.  It’s not bad to.  Men like that as well,  I would say my husband and I equally initiate sex.  You shouldn’t feel bad or guilty about having sex before y’all were married either.

Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

If he’s not initiating sex, talk to him about it.  My SO used to go through periods where his anxiety was bad, and just wouldn’t initiate for awhile.  After I talked to him about it (over a year ago now), we’ve been very even initiators 😉

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

We didn’t have sex before marriage but I am in the same position as you and I usually initiate the sex. There are times when I do find this frustrating and I do not know if he doesn’t initiate because he is afraid to or if he just doesn’t think about it. Usually when I initiate he very rarely says no so it isn’t that he doesn’t want it.

I have personally learnt that the best way for to the two of us to have sex is for me to just ask him out right and a while beforehand. It may not be romantic but if he says no when we aren’t “getting in the mood” it’s better because there is less frustration.

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