(Closed) anyone else have a higher sex drive than they SO?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am right there with you girl. With my crazy schedule, my drive has dwindled down some too. But, most of my friends and I agree that we have bigger sex drives than our DH’s/SO’s. I think we hit our peaks later in life. I went through a few months of feeling insecure and hurt and finally just had a talk with Darling Husband. It’s been on the up hill ever since 🙂

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I am definately with you!!! I have a crazy sex drive…sometimes i really dont think I’m normal…and I initiate it all the time…but I’m not really ashamed of it! 🙂

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yep, Fiance says i basically take it from him sometimes.  I think we both do our fair share of initiating it, but I think I want it more  often.  Smile  He’s not circumsized (sorry if TMI) so I try to not ask for too much since sometimes it gets a little sore around the foreskin.  Wow. i said foreskin.  Embarassed

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

My ex was like that. There wasn’t a chance in hell I was going to marry a guy who wouldn’t satisfy me in that respect I dumped him after 5 years. Best decision I ever made!

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Urgh.  I want sex at least three times as often as he does.  He’s receptive twice a week, if I’m lucky.  At the moment, he doesn’t want to have sex until after the wedding.   Mrgl flrgl.

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’d say I have a slightly higher sex drive..but he always wants it in the most inconvenient times! What’s wrong with some sex before bed? He always wants it in the mornings AFTER I’ve gotten ready for work, or in the middle of the day. 

Oh boys…

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I am in that boat too! For a long time I totally felt like a freak too! LOL. But he still wants it a good amount, and even if he is not in the mood, but I initiate it, he will still join in. It might just take a little more effort on my part to get things going. It used to really bother me, but now I am more used to it. We still engage 5 to 7 times per week so I don’t feel like I am missing out by any means!

Post # 12
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

I am the same way! I could have sex every day. But, for an example… we had sex one time in January and got pregnant. ONE time. the whole month. once. bleh. 

Post # 13
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Helper bee

i thought i would never say it but i am a freak and want it more now wayyy more wth !  its shoking to me , really…

Post # 14
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Uhm, yeah.  I talked about it with him not too long ago because I felt like I wanted it so much more than him.  I felt that our sex life was drying up a bit.  Well, since the talk, he’s been surprising me.  I couldn’t be any happier.  Hahaha.

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We are polar opposites that way, I want it far less. I believe my BC has dwindled my drive. I try my hardest to help him out!

Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

My Fiance is 10 years older than me, and I notice it when it comes to our sex [email protected]

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