- 5 years ago
- Wedding: August 2013
I feel like I have a hard time appreciating the “now”. I am constantly thinking of the future… Before I got engaged, I always thought about how awesome things would be when that time came, then I got engaged and spent most of my time thinking about the wedding and how lovely things would be once I was married. Now I am married and am day dreaming about purchasing a house and having babies. At one time THIS time in my life would have been perceived as the time I would be happiest, (and it is wonderful) so why am I nexting? I want to enjoy this phase and appreciate the now. I think it’s great to have goals but I think myself and so many other people spend too much of their time caught up in the past or the future. Does anyone else have a habit of thinking about the future more than appreciating what they already have? Any tips for being more present?