(Closed) Anyone else have this (or something similar) happen?…

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Hmmm…I agree – that’s really bizarre!

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

You know, I think some guys are like that. I’ve had guys who had crushes on me in high school (who told me then) randomly contact me on Facebook a year or two since I had seen them and do the same thing, then drop off right away. Almost like they’re wondering what could have been?

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That is strange.  I delete people right away if I’m sure I won’t need their number again.  But I also have friends who keep everyone’s number they’ve ever dialed.  It’s odd and the friends that I’m thinking of are actually rather odd themselves.  I think you dodged a bullet there, he’s probably a bit off.

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

weird. When Fiance and I started dating almost 4 years ago I had an ex that all of a sudden just had to talk to me. He would message me pictures of us that honestly I didn’t even know he had, it was creepy. He finally got the hint when I went all crazy on him saying I would get a restraining order. He finally deleted my number at that point too! We had only dated for about 1 month too.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I have a guy friend that never deleted numbers from his phone and when he would get bored would “catch up” with random first name contacts from the address book.  He did that until he met his wife…then he wiped the entire address book clean.  I agree it’s odd though…

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

That’s SO weird!! I haven’t had anything like that happen to me. Closest thing was my EX calling me over and over when I had just started my relationship with Fiance. Gosh, what a weirdo! He must be lonely!

Also, question for you: You say you’re married now but it says your wedding isn’t until June 2010? Are you just calling him your husband now since it’s getting close or did yall already get married?

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I used to keep the numbers of a couple of nagging exes…not to call them…but so I would see the name and NOT answer when THEY called me…LOL! I did this until I changed my number about 3 and a half years ago. My Fiance still has a couple of women contacting him that he broke up with a couple of years before we even MET!!…and we have been together for over 3 years…LOL.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I have a guy who I on and off dated for like a year and a half (we were never serious) who still drunk dials me sometimes.  It’s kind of funny because he knows the hubs as we all worked at the same place.  It drives the hubs nuts, and I never respond to his messages (I don’t answer when I see it’s him, but usually I am still sleeping) or if I do I write on his facebook wall so the whole world knows he’s still drunk dialing me, lol. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Strange, he sounds desperate or maybe he just cant forget about you, haha

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

why is the number still in there? he is lazy and never removes numbers and/or having a thousand numbers makes him feel cool. 

why did he call you after 4 years? no freakin clue. 

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I have a friend who has an ex call her on random occasions too. It only got a bit scary when he phoned her after not having seen her for 2 years and tried to convince her that she was the love of his life and tried to make her move to Australia with him! Since then she doesn’t answer texts or calls from numbers she doesn’t recognize.

Although I do have to say, because of my work, I never delete a phone number. I have old contacts in my phone but I never know when they’ll come in handy. Maybe he’s just got you on his ex-contact group in that way? So when he wants to call in a favour or a date he tries calling you? It’s weird though, I totally get that!

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

@June: Ohhh okay girl, I’m sorry…I didn’t know! That’s exciting! ๐Ÿ™‚

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