(Closed) Anyone else having a lousy year planning?

posted 12 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
676 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I’m sorry things aren’t going well for you BnR09, things haven’t been so fabulous on this end either. I kind of wish we’d just hopped a plane to Vegas or something. I hope it all looks up for you and the next three weeks are smooth sailing, hope your wedding day is perfect!

Post # 4
349 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

I’m really sorry to hear that! For a while there, our planning wasn’t so great. It was largely due to two of our wedding party members doing a personality 180 once we got engaged. It caused a lot of stress on both of us, and ruined a lot of planning (long story short, these people became really mean-spirited and said some awful things about me and my fiance to other family members). In the end, we all mutually decided they no longer needed to be the in the wedding party, and it’s been smooth sailing since. Although, I sometimes still hold a grudge that all our beginning plans were very negative because of that situation. It almost got to a point where were seriously considered just going to city hall and calling it a day.

Stay strong. I know how it feels. But even when you have unsupportive friends and family, the wedding day WILL be worth it because those that care will show up and share your day with you. I see your wedding date is summer 2009, so you’re almost there!

Post # 5
1489 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Our planning was horrible and all of our guests (family included) sniped about everything. The complaining got so bad, we decided to elope. Good luck!

Post # 6
545 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

Our planning hasn’t been the best the last few months. I find that weddings bring out the worse in people.  I feel like no one close to me really cares about my wedding, or that people are just trying to make things worse for me.  My planning has delayed because I was so upset I didn’t even want to think about the wedding.  If this makes you feel any better, you are not alone. 

Post # 8
2271 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Wedding planning has been a misearable experience. I was hoping that towars the end, things would get better and just when it looked like I had a handle on things, I get an abscessed tooth.

Post # 9
110 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

The whole planning processing has been miserable, without support, and both sides of families aren’t really involved either.  I just hope at the end of the wedding day I have a smile on my face.

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