(Closed) Anyone else having KID FREE wedding?? Why?

posted 4 years ago in Logistics
Post # 2
8576 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2014

We are having minimal children, and when I say minimal, I mean 2 children whom are under the age of 16, and ONLY because they are in the bridal party, and 2 more that are under 18 – one is SO’s sister as well as my bm.

We did it for alot of the same reasons as you – plus, we aren’t overly fond of some of our friends children [they are super ill behaved].

I haven’t heard anything about it YET, but people haven’t gotten their invitations yet, still a few months to go. I do expect to hear a little bickering on the family, though.

Post # 3
15 posts

I sincerely tried to make it this way. But since all of the other, non-kid-related drama, I figure I can accept kids to my cake and punch reception. But no way, no how, come hell or high water will there be kids in or at my ceremony.

And definitely expect to hear some rude responses to it as well. Apparently I hate children? -.-

Post # 6
15 posts

MrsDToBe2014:  I agree with you there. I want my own one day, but don’t want some ill-behaved heathens to interrupt my ceremony! We aren’t even allowing infants (oh, the horror!). I love that you blamed it on your venue! Classic!

Post # 7
924 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

My wedding vows were ruined by a screaming baby.  Ex H’s cousins for some reason thought ‘no children’ didn’t apply to them, and turned up late to the ceremony with their baby.  Who then proceeded to scream so loudly that the officiant actually stopped in the middle of our vows…glared at them…they still didn’t get the message for about 30 seconds.  Another relative finally told them to take it out.  The officiant then resumed our vows…

My Mother-In-Law never forgave them for it, she never spoke to either of them again…she died 11 years later.  

When I marry Fiance I am going to have a bouncer on the door who will be told to refuse entry to anyone under the age of 18.  I will make sure that everyone attending knows this beforehand, and I don’t give a flying fuck what anyone thinks of that. 

Post # 8
5162 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2014

MrsDToBe2014:  The only child we are having is our nephew, and he is being sent away after dinner! He’s our ring bearer, but I didn’t feel like we wanted him around during dancing/drinking. And FI’s friends can DRINK!! I just think it’s better without kids running all over. Luckily for us, there aren’t too many kids in our lives – a few friends have babies but they are happy to have a night off!

Post # 10
2890 posts
Sugar bee

MrsDToBe2014:  Pretty much for the same reasons as yours. I can’t fathom paying 60$ for a child’s meal. I wouldn’t ask parents to ever pay so much for their 2 and 6 years old (our nephews), so why should I ? I’m already working on a very tight budget and this just doesn’t make the cut.

I don’t want kids running around either. I really believe wedding receptions (especially when they’re sit-down dinners during the evening) are  adult-only events and I’ve met many people in the wedding industry (venues or planners) who think the same. A 3 hour-long dinner is not children-friendly, and I don’t feel like spending even more money just to keep them entertained.

Finally, I already do not see my friends very often, especially since they had kids. They too, know what it’s like to be on a budget. I’d like for them to just leave their kid behind for one evening so we can have fun together (our wedding was 55 guests and now 12). It’s the exception for all the other occasions I’ll invite them over with their kids, or go to their place and their kids will be there. One evening is not much, and it can even be fun for them, sort of like a date night as a couple as well (out of town, hotel room, dinner and wine …). 😉

Post # 12
236 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Definitely no kids at ours! There is only one couple who has them so it shouldn’t be too hard to enforce. I can’t dance with kids on the dance floor running around under my feet, and I want to be dancing!!

Post # 13
471 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I have said no to kids at my reception (Destination wedding/elopement and reception on different days) mainly because I have friends with quite a few young kids under 10, so there would be about 10 children there in a 30 person reception. WAY too many! And also 5 of those kids are not well behaved at all. It would turn into a daycare nightmare rather than a nice celebration. 

Post # 14
177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

Yep we are. It’s been such a drama too but I’m hoping our families will respect our wishes and stop pushing the children thing. We are not having anyone under the age of 16 at our reception. My Bridesmaid or Best Man is 17 ( FIs sister ) and I have one cousin who is 17 also who is invited. I can’t fathom paying $60+ a head for little kids who probably won’t enjoy our night time reception. I love kids but it just isn’t the place for them.

Post # 15
1032 posts
Bumble bee

Yep, ours is kid-free. Why? Because I don’t have the money for all of the extra tables and chairs and food for everyone and their little brats (sorry, I kind of hate kids…and between all of my cousins, there’s like 14 of them).

The only kid allowed at our wedding is my niece, and that’s only because she lives 3,000 miles away and has to fly in with my sister and Brother-In-Law. I’m already stressing out about her screaming/crying in the middle of the ceremony, but my Brother-In-Law is going to be her wrangler, so he’s going to take her out as SOON as she starts.

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