(Closed) Anyone else having wedding dreams where something enormous goes wrong?

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
5669 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yes. I keeping having dreams about my DJ being beyond awful and making us dress like the villiage people LOL, I actually saw a video of a DJ who did them. Safe to say we didn’t hire them. And I have this dream that the wedding is about to start and I do not have my hair or makeup done.

Post # 4
1408 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I am exactly 70 days to my wedding today too! I too have been having horrible nightmares and dreams of things going horribly wrong! The worst was one where we hired an even coordinator who took control of everything and instead of my elegant lakeside wedding in navy, white with bits of red and yellow, she planned it around a 6’5″, modelesque African-American woman she thought was the bride (instead of 5’8″, pasty white curvy me) and the whole wedding was done in lavendar, plastic, and paper streamers in a gym with nothing but meat to eat (My Fi and I are vegetarians)! Oh god, it was aweful. And no matter what I said or did, nobody would listen! Ugh. That was the first in a string of terrible dreams I’ve been having lately! I think it means my stress levels are starting to spike!

Post # 5
407 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

YES. Just last night. First part of dream: I missed my rehearsal dinner because I was stuck at work. Second part of dream: It was pouring rain and we couldn’t get married outside like we are supposed to- and I realize it’s two hours past the time the ceremony is supposed to start; my make-up and hair people never came, I’m not ready, the photog is not there – basically it’s ruined.

Post # 6
39 posts
  • Wedding: July 2010

i had a dream the other night that it was my wedding day and NOTHING was ready! and i was trying to get stuff set up.  and then looked at a clock and realized it was a half hour till the wedding and i had left my curlers at home, so i had no way to do my hair!

i woke up soooooo stressed!   haha

Post # 7
990 posts
Busy bee

I had an awful nightmare that i forgot flowers/florist didnt show up and i didnt have a bouquet, on top of that I was pregnant, and my Fiance and his men didnt have tuxes and wore matching white button down shirts and jeans. we got married in a VFW hall (instead of our beautiful reception hall) and i couldnt wear the dress i bought because i was so pregnant. and I had to have a cake from the grocery store! so my whole wedding was different! it was the scariest dream ever…which sparks a lot of my fear with my vendors not showing up on my wedding day

Post # 8
223 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Two memorable ones thus far –

#1 was several months back already (I even posted it, so forgive me if some of you have read this).  That night, FH and I watched the ep. of The Office when it’s Michael’s b-day, and he is all super-excited and obnoxious about it.  Kevin, in the meantime, had just found out that he might have skin cancer.  The office staff is so concerned for Kevin and annoyed by Michael’s irritating behavior that finally someone says to him “Nobody cares that it’s your birthday, Kevin might have cancer!”  So that night I dreamt that I was walking down the aisle in my fab, blingy dress and no one was looking because they were all discussing someone’s serious but not definite ailment!  I pitched a fit because I had “wasted” the dress!

#2 was earlier this week.  I dreamt that the ceremony went fine, but that afterwards during cocktail hour, I took off my makeup and put on my pj’s (boxers and old t-shirt).  My mother was horrified and forced me to put my dress back on and redo my face for the reception.  I was pouty and petulant like a bratty kid!  Then the bandleader informed us that since we had never provided him with music requests for special dances, he was going to use very stereotypical stuff, which in the dream I was fine with, but my mother started a shouting match with him…

Post # 9
10846 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

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@Ex Libris: LOL! That second dream is hilarious!!!

I have these dreams all.the.time. My most recurring one is that we don’t have any wedding bands. Like didn’t even buy them, not just forgot them. I just bought FI’s ring last week and I’ve been harassing him to no end about my own because the dream stresses me out so much!!!

Post # 10
6659 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I frequently had dreams where I was about to walk down the aisle and we couldn’t find my dress anywhere and there wasn’t even time for me to shower or anything so I was gross and sweaty in some random dress I owned already. I also had dreams where I didn’t have any shoes so 5 minutes before the ceremony I sent my BM’s out to the mall to find some and of course ended up with ugly mismatched shoes too big for my feet..

Don’t worry, they go away after the wedding! 🙂

Post # 11
2015 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I had frequent dreams where we started to get married in an unknown park that I didn’t like, and everyone was trying to tell me it was okay, and I kept screaming, “No! This isn’t my venue!” Also, all the flowers were wrong, and I had on this ugly dress with a horrible make-up job.

So yeah, I had lots of nightmares. Weirdly enough, it was always the same one!

Post # 12
92 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Oh yes, I too am having messed up dreams!  They seem silly once you think about it though.

– I forget what time the ceremony is at and I show up really late

– I forget to bring the BMs’ shawls

– My Fiance isn’t wearing the right colour

– I forgot to get my hair/makeup done

Post # 13
279 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My first one was that the Mexican Trio that will be playing on our beach played an upbeat, English version of the romantic, Spanish song I chose to walk down the aisle to. They didn’t know the Spanish version!

Just last night I had a dream that my brother was going to divorce his wife b/c she isn’t going to my wedding. Now that wouldn’t bother me all that much. lol

Post # 14
235 posts
Helper bee

My FDIL told me that she dreamed she forgot to shave her armpits!  She’s wearing a strapless dress and she said her armpit hair was like long enough to braid!  LOL!

Post # 15
186 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I had a dream that all the Bridesmaid or Best Man wore white tights with short dresses. Ugh!

That everyone left the reception by 8 PM it was just my Fiance and I hanging out.

I hate having those dreams I can still remember them totally even months later.

Post # 16
4383 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I had a dream that I forgot to book someone to do my hair, and I didn’t realize until a few hours before the ceremony so I had to do it myself lol.

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