(Closed) Anyone else having wedding nightmares?

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
Post # 31
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Oh my goodness ! I thought I was the only one !! in my latest one I am alone at the church trying to bake my own wedding cake in a dress that is wayy to small .. then no one shows up and I look over and see a huge stack of wedding invites that I forgot to send out  .. haha

Post # 32
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Ugh. They’re totally normal. The last one I had was right after I ordered Mr. Carrot’s ring: I opened the package and it was an ugly bulky gold ring that kind of looked like it had a tiny gold plated cinder block on top. So weird.

The dream before that, I was getting married in a venue that I didn’t want to be married in and instead of people sitting in these ugly brocade chairs, they were big vases filled with marbles in the seats.

Post # 33
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I had my 1st nightmare a couple of nights ago… I was in my wedding gown running around in the rain and someplace that is not my venue and it was not even my wedding day.. And the whole time I was outside- I was getting nervous I was ruining my dress.   

 

I have my 1st fitting in 3 weeks and had just made an appointment— so guess thats why I had this dream.

Post # 33
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63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I had my 1st nightmare a couple of nights ago… I was in my wedding gown running around in the rain and someplace that is not my venue and it was not even my wedding day.. And the whole time I was outside- I was getting nervous I was ruining my dress.   

 

I have my 1st fitting in 3 weeks and had just made an appointment— so guess thats why I had this dream.

Post # 34
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487 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I haven’t even been engaged for a month yet and not getting married until next year and I had my first nightmare last night. I was getting married and everything was great until I saw the person I was getting married to wasn’t my fiance at all but in fact….my ex (who is a huge a-hole) :O

Post # 37
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I just had my first wedding nightmare. It involved my pushy Aunt (who I’m not close too and don’t plan to invite but my mother is insisting) basically moving the wedding date up by three months and nothing is ready. In the dream I don’t have any decorations or rentals secure, I don’t have any food planned, my dress hasn’t arrived and my groom is missing. I thought I was going to get a break when my dress arrived the day of the dream wedding but it turned out to be 4 sizes too big, not what I wanted and BURGUNDY! And I just kept shrugging off these problems telling everyone it wasn’t a big deal that the important thing was to get married and the whole time I’m inwardly ranting and raving and I can just feel my control over the day slipping away. I’m pretty sure the nightmare stemmed from being so early in the planning stages and yet still feeling like everything has to be decided now. And from the fact that I have several well meaning but clueless family members trying to replace what I want with what they think are better ideas. And I guess its a lesson for me too. Perhaps I need to loosen my grip on some of the details and let people help or I need to be more assertive in what I want. Ultimately it did have a resolution as I simply sat down in my ugly dress gaping at the breast and refused to go to the church. To which everyone replied, “We’re just trying to help.”

Post # 38
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’ve had wedding nightmares ranging from not making my hair or makeup appointments and having to groom myself the day of to being 9 months pregnant at my own wedding! Haha true nightmares!!! I’ve heard its completely normal though….

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