(Closed) anyone else in a pissy mood?!

posted 12 years ago in Waiting
Post # 77
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Newbee

Thats kind of how we got on the subject of marriage. I put my foot down and told him that if we aren’t engaged by the time our lease is up I’m moving on (yes we are living in sin). It would be very difficult because I love him so but I want kids end of story. He does things differently than I do I am organized. I have basically taken over his money LOL I pay the bills and soon all credit cards will be taken care of YES!!! Thats a monkey off my back. I also told him I don’t want big expensive ring. Well I think every girl secretly WANTS one but I don’t need it. I told him no one not even I need to know how much he spent or where he got it from. A ring is a symbol of our love not a lets out due someone else. I wouldn’t care if he bought it from walmart or a pawn shop because I don’t need to know that.

I am getting prices and ideas right now so we have an idea on what we are going to spend. Hopefully soon now that we have endured the worst time for things to turn around! The effort, time, and money his job required was ROCKBOTTOM! So many bad things happend on the road to getting this job I just KNEW it was in the stars for him to get it. I’m starting to see my rainbow and am already looking for gold!!

Post # 79
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Newbee

I like your term better ๐Ÿ™‚ Usually when living together comes up I get looks of disgust, not from my family thank God but from others. I can’t help feeling somewhat judged by these people even though the people who matter think living together before marriage is important. Atleast I can say I not only know him at his best but also his worst and I still love him and can live with it.

I will have to make mention of overstock.com, sam’s, etc. to bf. He said he is relieved that I don’t care how much he spends or where he got it from. His friends were apparently telling him stuff like “If you really love her you should spend more”. I am not a materalistic person at all and I am one who likes to find a good deal. Finding something beautiful for half the price deserves more bragging rights in my book. If you spend more you just took the easy way out.

Bf has a friend who meet someone and married her in less than a year. The reason they married was because they are the same religion and because of their religious views won’t divorce each other. She wanted kids, they have one now and he is not happy because he wasn’t ready. I know they aren’t really happy but it still irks me that they married so quickly while I’m over here in the slow lane. What’s that saying “Slow and steady wins the race”? I look at the race being won as a successful,happy marriage.

Post # 81
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Blushing bee

I just got in a huge fight with my mom’s partner over her dress. Mom’s partner “P” hated the dress mom and I picked out. She made shitty comments to me via email AND on facebook (for everyone to see). This was a few weeks ago. I never told her how angry I was (like, fine don’t come to the wedding eff you! angry). Tonight I went over there and she went there again. I told her that I was angry and hurt when it happened and she said it was MY FAULT that I took it personaly. I got so angry (she won’t listen and kept yelling over me) that I got my stuff, told my mom I loved her and left. Only yo hear P from inside the house yell “woohoo! That means I don’t have to go!” (I was in my car at this point). I drove all the way home and it’s been over an hour with no call from my mom to check on me. It’s going to be a long night….Cry

Post # 82
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Blushing bee

Sorry, I didn’t mean to cut off the previous topic. I just started typing and it all came out.

 

@<span style=”color: #81a026; font-size: x-small;”>semanthia I’ve been w/ my guy for going on 6 years. I don’t believe it’s good to push someone into something they aren’t ready for. Because you could end up unhappy like your friend (or friends hubby). When the timing is right it will happen. It sucks having to wait when you’re all excited, but I think it’s worth it. ๐Ÿ™‚

 

Post # 85
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Blushing bee

Ah, yes. There’s nothing like you having 1 idea of what “soon” is and him having a completely different one. Ugh, men. ๐Ÿ˜‰ No, I don’t mean that, I’m just in a mood. ๐Ÿ™‚ Good for you for knowing who you are and what you want. You go! ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 87
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Blushing bee

You were’nt snarky hon!! Not at all! I’m just like you. I need a plan, if that plan changes I need to know WAY ahead of time or I get all out of wack (wedding day should be fun, ha!). ((hug))

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