(Closed) anyone else NOT facebook friends with their SO

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
  • poll: Are you and your SO/FI/DH Facebook friends
    yes, of course : (211 votes)
    88 %
    no, there's no need to be : (8 votes)
    3 %
    n/a we aren't into social networking : (9 votes)
    4 %
    other, please explain : (12 votes)
    5 %
  • Post # 3
    5654 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: April 2011

    We have the same social group and so yea… it’d be kinda weird if we weren’t. I post more than he does BUT we do both still post and then since we use it to keep in touch with family we have all of our family as “family” Darling Husband as my married to, my mom, sis, etc.

    I guess whatever works for you works for you.

    Post # 4
    2362 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    My Fiance and I are friends on fb. We do talk a lot (obviously), but we don’t live together so we still “post” a lot on each others wall and goof around on there. I understand where you are coming from though. Personally, not being friends with him on there would make me wonder all the time since you said you have been cheated on before (through facebook ?) but I am a bit of a worry bee.

    Post # 5
    5295 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    Haha, my Darling Husband got a facebook a couple years ago, but he only has like 10 friends. He literally has it completely locked down and after the recent privacy changes, I can’t even see his page. Neither can any of his other friends. It’s pointless – he just uses mine. I keep asking him and he’s just like “I don’t want to get into using it”.

    But it does drive me crazy when I see couples post “I love you so much honeybear, you’re the bestest bestie every! Don’t eat all my saltines!”

    There is no need to post on each other’s walls if you are in the same room.

    End rant.

    Post # 6
    4581 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    My Fiance hates Facebook, so no, we aren’t FB friends. ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 7
    3126 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2017

    Darling Husband doesn’t have facebook.

    Post # 8
    1543 posts
    Bumble bee

     Yeah, pretty much what @runsyellowlites: described, sums up our FB usage as well.

    But I’m with you on the whole constantly writing back and forth on each other’s walls/page. I don’t get it.  Either it’s all mushy mushy, or it’s dramariffic (don’t get me started on that, I HATE when ppl air their dirty laundry like that on FB), or they’re in the same effing house, facebooking back and forth. Stop it. Just stop.

    Post # 9
    5295 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: January 1993

    @Wonderwoman217: lol, same couple that posted the mushy crap I said also had a *very* public breakup on facebook. classsssyyy. They are now married.

    Post # 10
    3378 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    I think we’re in what I would classify as the FB generation, so it would be weird if we weren’t.  His phone was actually broken when we met, so he didn’t ask for my phone number, he asked if he could friend me.  It’s just part of our culture.

    Post # 12
    1734 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    SO and I work opposing shifts (I work 11 am – 7 pm, he works 7 pm – 7 am) so even though we live together, we don’t see each other much. He gets a lot of downtime at work so he will often get on fb and we chat in the evenings while I check my websites and blogs. It’s nice to have that — way more convenient than texting. So, yeah, being fb friends is beneficial to us.

    And we are completely guilty of the mushy romantic posts. I mean, it’s not all the time, but it happens. And I know it drives people crazy, which is why I try to keep it to a minimum, but sometimes we just can’t help ourselves ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 13
    408 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    Fiance and I are facebook friends, but we never use it to talk to each other.  In Fact, we both rarely go on it anymore. 

    My last serious relationship actually blocked me and told me he deleted his, and then I found out he was cheating on me.  What a winner he was. 

    But Fiance and I are very open and have a much stronger relationship than any of our past relationships.  So I’m not worried about any drama ๐Ÿ™‚

    Post # 14
    10713 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I’d rather see who my Fiance talks to than not see. Were definitely facebook friends. I also write on his wall maybe once a month to let him know I miss him and love him while he’s at work because he likes that. He only gets on to play the games lately but I’m on all day everyday.

    Post # 15
    664 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    SO does not have a fb and I rarely ever go on mine so nope only friends and lovers in IRL lol ๐Ÿ˜‰

    Post # 16
    7369 posts
    Busy Beekeeper

    He barely checks his emails, hates computers, despises social media. So no.

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