(Closed) Anyone else NOT having a flowergirl/ring bearer

posted 8 years ago in Ceremony
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

Nope we didn’t have either.  We had no children invited to our wedding at all.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Neither are we, never even crossed my mind. 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We’re getting married in October and we aren’t having a flower girl or ring bearer. Just didn’t want to have them, no particular reason.

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: June 2010

We had a flower girl but no ring bearer

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

we arent having them.

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

Nope no ring bearer and no flower girl. I love the idea of petals already on the aisle though – I think it is so beautiful.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We aren’t having them.  I thought about it, for a minute last week, because a very dear friend has boy/girl twin 2yos….  but then I remembered I have already printed the programs, so nope!  None for us!

I think my older sister/MOH wants to carry a ring – so I suppose we’ll have her carry FH’s and the Bridesmaid or Best Man carry mine. 

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i never thought i’d have either, but my husband has the cutest niece that we both love and she was the perfect flower girl. we aren’t close to any little boys though, and i wouldn’t trust them to carry our rings anyway.

Post # 12
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

We are, but I’ve been to a few weddings that haven’t had either and they seemed to work just fine

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

We have neither.  We have no children at our wedding at all for that matter.

Post # 14
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

We are not having flower girl or ring bearer either. I never really liked the idea of having to choose who would have these roles in the wedding. I think it makes the other kids feel left out and puts extra stress on the parents. We’re trying to keep the wedding as adults only as possible.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

actually – up until literally two days before our wedding – we didn’t have either. We didn’t know any children that we wanted in our wedding – except my nephew, and my bro/sil live in florida, we’re in indiana – and they told my mom and me that they couldn’t make it – so we didn’t plan on any children in the party or at the reception (we had a no-kids-reception)…however, my bro surprised me by driving up here two days before the wedding! we actually got my 2.5 year old nephew in a tux and he was AWESOME as our ring bearer! lol. however – we had no pillow or anything for him – and he just handed the boxes to our best man. 🙂

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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

We are not having a ring bearer or a flower girl. No kids invited– not intended but the people are inviting don’t have young kids.

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