Post # 1
I am really surprised by how many bees on here get ‘dress regret’. When I got the awful feeling of dress regret, and finally told all of you on here, I kept thinking how stupid of me to feel like this! No one will understand how I’m feeling.. My mom and sister thought I was being nuts. I thought I was nuts! But I must say, all of you are so sweet and so helpful. I love the wedding bee, it makes me obsessed!! BUT I also hate the wedding bee because it makes me obsessed!
Before I came on here and I had a dress style in mind that I loved. But now I love just about every style!!! The more I see, the more I love. So confused!
It is not hard to feel dress regret when seeing all of these different styles of beautiful wedding gowns. I have my dress, but still go on the ‘dress board’ just to see what’s going on and someone just posted a dress they bought, oh I’ll take a look see and OMG its beautiful. Everything I have been looking for. THAT is the dress.
Anyone else feel like banning themselves from the dress board?!?
Post # 3
I need to ban myself from the cheating posts in thedit: didn’t realize this was in the dress board 🙂
Post # 4
@raisedonrobbery: I was the same way. I loved my dress til i joined the wedding bee. I was so jealous of all the other girls in there dresses. I almost sold my dress just because i wanted to keep trying them on. I didnt thank god, i am obessed with the wedding bee, mostly the dress & ring section. lol
Post # 5
@raisedonrobbery: I feel you. The more dresses I look at on the bee the more I question my choice! It’s making me NUTS! I love the bee as a place to talk about wedding stuff and to talk about fun Not Wedding Related stuff; but I hate the bee for making me concerned with every little thing. Are my favors good enough? Is my dress “me”? Do I have the right color scheme?
We need to take a deep breath and chillllll out.
Post # 6
@s.renea9: Me too! I loved my dress, even tho it was not at all what I thought I would get. Came on the wedding bee to show everyone and saw all these beautiful dresses that I didn’t try on or look at and was thinking ‘damn!! I don’t think I love my dress anymore!’ The ring section is one I will not look at. I just know how bad that could get!LOL
@Petite_Fraise: I question my choice everyday. And if I think I got my dream dress figured out, I end up questioning that dress a week later after finding another dream dress! ugggh. I totally need to take a deep breath and ban myself for a little while from the bee. I haven’t gone too deep into planning yet, but I don’t even want to know what I’ll be like when centerpieces and favors come to mind. Im the kind of person who goes deep into research to find ‘the best’ of whatever it is I’m planning. It ends up taking over my life!
Post # 7
Sometimes I do, but I say what’s done is done.. The dress I chose is it and at your fittings you may see that. I had my 2nd fitting yesterday and walked around in my dress for an hour because I loved it so much.
I’m actually getting that feeling but on the rings board.. lol Soooo many different styles of rings that I didn’t bother to give a chance to because I had my heart set on one particular style.. So I don’t go on that board as often as I used to anymore. (Sorry for that rant on the dress board lol)
Post # 8
LOLZ! I try not to look until after my wedding! But yes I have such regret.. my dress is gooorgeous, but it’s a BOAT! It is heavy and huge and tight! I will not be able to have as much fun dancing as I was hoping 🙁 And my sales rep did not once warn me to sit down or jump around in my dress when I was trying it on.. boohoo.. oh well. I am trying to fixate on the fact that it is gorgeous 🙂 staying positive 🙂 what do you regret about yours??