(Closed) Anyone else planning a wedding and missing your mom? (deceased)

posted 8 years ago in Family
Post # 3
3526 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Similar, but my dad.

He passed away when I was 10 and it still kills me that he can’t be around every single day. It hurts especially during the big life things, like a wedding.

I’m not going to lie, it was hard the day of, wishing he was there. I just know he would love my husband.

But such is life.


Your dad’s significant other sounds sweet. Give her a chance, I know it’s hard, truly I do. But as long as she’s a good person and makes your dad happy I think that’s what’s important. Soon you’ll have your own family and won’t have as much time for your dad. It’s nice to know he has someone to share the evenings and days with.

I often wish my mom would find someone….but that is a whole ‘nother post…

Post # 5
1501 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I’m going through the same but it is my dad who has passed. It has been two years and I just know how happy this wedding would of made him. Him and Fiance got along really well the few times they did meet.

It is hard but we are here for support if you need it.

Post # 6
1181 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

For me it’s my grandma. My mom is completely absent from my life (we don’t speak to eachother). My grandma and I were close but she passed away one year before I met my fiance. I hate that she never even got to meet him, especially when she thought I was going to end up with someone she didn’t even like! She would have liked my FH way more lol. I think she would have loved our wedding too. It’s totally her style. Sometimes it’s hard though.

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