(Closed) Anyone else struggle with friend jealousy?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I was really upset when my (ex) best friend invited my ex boyfriend to her birthday party. I wasn’t 21 and couldn’t go, and we’d broken up a couple months before. She’d always talked about how annoying he was, but she still invited him to her birthday without telling me. I had to find out by seeing the 200 photos on facebook. That was mostly because he was my ex boyfriend, and was enough for me to just stop being friends with her (although she also dirty danced with him when her boyfriend went home which I think was just shady). 

My jealousy at that situation annoys me because it wasn’t necessary. I think it just takes a little bit to deal with friends becoming friends when we don’t expect it haha. And initially it makes you feel kind of left out. I’m glad everything worked out : )

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ve never been jealous of any of my friends or my Maid/Matron of Honor and Bridesmaid or Best Man becoming friends because it’s never happened. In fact my Maid/Matron of Honor and BM only met each other a few days before the wedding. I learned from both of them several weeks later that they didn’t like each other and listed why> Oh, great!! It’s ok because they never have to set eyes on each other again.

But if they did I can totally see me being jealous. I know I have no “ownership” over them and they can be friends with who ever they want. Even though there is no “ownership” I’d like to think I have friendship rights to them. Maybe I’m afraid they would become close, exclude me and thats why my jealousy would show.

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