(Closed) Anyone else the “advice” friend? (vent)

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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624 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

UGH I can totally relate to this. It really is a pain in the ass, people always contact you when they have problems but I promise you that if they get back together he wont say a damn word to you and keep quiet cuz he’s happy now.

Those are called Emotional Vampires.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

It is really rough when you are the go-to person. It must be because you are nice!

I think that you have to be blunt with him and just say “You’ve tried to get her back, now you need to let it go and show her what she is missing, not some pathetic guy begging on this knees” – but nicer than that. It almost sounds like he needs Mr. Bee’s waiting plan!

I am normally the advice friend and it’s hard when people tell you about issues (like self-harm) and you don’t have the reasources to do anything to help them. (This was a while ago and I was quite young at the time, it’s been resolved now).

 

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