(Closed) Anyone else this indecisive?

posted 5 years ago in Rings
Post # 16
472 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016 - Temescal Lake House

Me, me, me! We went ring shopping MULTIPLE times. Put the down payment on 2 until I finally decided on the one I have. I always wanted a solitaire with a pave band, changed my mind and then wanted a rose gold antique style, then I wanted pear. Now I have a halo which I never ever wanted. Now I can’t find a band that matches and want to go back to the original. Fiance is not amused. 

Post # 17
1886 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2016 - Gorse Hill, Surrey, UK

Oh goodness it’s like you took a look inside my head! I’m married and still don’t really know what I want! 

We ordered a 1ct moissanite solitaire originally, was too big for my tastes, then a radiant on a chanel set band – returned that, then went shopping and tried on multiple things and nothing really spoke to me that I would want to wear for ever. I thought I nailed it with a three stone ruby ring which actully became my engagement ring. After a few months of wearing it it drove me nuts as the ruby was never really red, it always looked pink/purple. Also we had a channel set band that was supposed to be an exact match profile to go with the ruby ring, but its chunkier so that annoyed me too. 

When the actual wedding started to come around I told my Fiance I wanted to just get one wedding ring to wear as rings that stick up keep flip floping around my finger and although they are pretty, it bugs me the way they fit. So I picked out a wide yellow gold band with engraving to wear as a traditional wedding ring. I love it because its so comfy to wear, but I missed my sparkles. 

So for my birthday this year I stumbled on a champagne diamond in a halo – something I thought I did not want as when I tried rings before halos felt too busy to me, but this ring really sings to me! I still don’t wear it all the time because of my job and again it kind of flops around a bit, so I wear it when I’m all dressed up on my days off. 

Even now I’m sitting here thinking I should have just gotten a plain band lol

My poor husband really doesnt understand and I think he’s a bit upset that I don’t wear one set set that he gave to me, but I’ve tried explaining how I feel and that I married him, not the rings. 

In all honesty some days I think I shouldn’t wear anything lol

Post # 18
1598 posts
Bumble bee

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skplue :  I am very indecisive because I love loads of rings and their styles. But I don’t wish to change my current rings, I often feel like wanting a whole new ring that I’ll wear as a stand in or RHR. 

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