(Closed) Anyone else tired of talking about the wedding?

posted 8 years ago in Beehive
Post # 3
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396 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2014

I feel for you 100% our whole planning process has had one big black cloud over it due to issues with FI’s family. I feel like now when people ask me about the wedding it almost puts me in a bad mood, because it hasn’t been the most joyous planning period. I can’t wait for the wedding and to not have to stress out about everything anymore, and to not have people constantly picking apart everything Fiance and I decide upon! I just love my Fiance and want us to be married and finally just look at people when they start to bug us and say ok well good bye we have to go home now and don’t care what you think because we won’t be seeing you in a month an a half at our wedding.

Post # 4
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48 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Well I’ll talk about other stuff with you.  I’m a dude, so weddings aren’t my forte.

Post # 5
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3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

I love talking about the wedding on here and with my friends getting married but not with people who have no idea about wedding planning b/c they think “what else do you have to do? you have a dress right?”

Post # 6
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443 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I hear ya! Everyone who asks a question, has an answer and usually a critical one: why are you doing that, at my wedding I did it this way, you have too much to do and you’ll never finish on time, blah blah blah. Fiance is sick to death of it and so am I, grrr! I am sure you are enthusiastic about the wedding day itself, it’s just getting there that’s the uphill battle! 

Post # 7
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1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Absolutely! I get tired of saying “So I was thinking about the wedding and…” And I’m still 9 months out!! I’m looking forward to school starting in about a week and a half just so I’ll have something else to focus on. lol

Post # 8
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2634 posts
Sugar bee

Hey date twin!

I don’t talk much about the wedding to anyone other than Fiance, but yes I’ll agree that it gets old.  Thankfully we’re in the home stretch so it won’t be a concern for much longer. 🙂

Post # 9
Hostess
16215 posts
Honey Beekeeper

I’m not tired of talking about the wedding, exactly. Moreso, I’m tired of talking about the wedding and it feeling like the wedding is never going to get here!

Post # 11
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375 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

totally!  People only talk to me about the wedding now a days!  Its like they feel obligated to ask me about it and I am starting to bore myself everytime I have to answer!

Post # 12
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6661 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

I mean, I was so glad it was over afterwards! I’m still on the boards, haha b/c I’m totally addicted to this site, but sooo thankful I’m not planning a wedding anymore!

Post # 13
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10 posts
Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2010

37 days to go until my wedding & I started feeling that way about a week & 1/2 ago!! There’s just sooo much to do.  While its been fun, I’m just so tired of stressing out over the tiniest detail that I know NO one else will even notice!!! I’ve never had to make so many decisions in my life.  I’m guessing feeling this way is pretty normal.  And while I havent had too much drama, my future mother-in-law hasn’t made things easy… and I’m already nervous about the crazyness she’s going to bring to the wedding weekend!! Can’t wait to just be on our honeymoon w/ my sweet handsome soon to be hubby!!

Post # 14
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1545 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I am excited about it but I think other people are tired of me talking about it. Its the only thing I have though! LOL no really I hardly ever plan parties or host events and this is like my baby.

Post # 15
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171 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

@soontobewalsh: I am completely in the same boat as you. I just want one day, one hour, one minute or even one second of NOT thinking or talking about the wedding.

I dont want to talk about the ceremony arrangement or what music we are going to play. I don’t want to talk about the number of guests or if Aunt Bea is going to eat the whole buffet.

I just want to curl up on  my bed afterwork with a good book and a cup of coffee and relax.

I don’t want to be “that bride” that gets all caught up in the wedding and lives her life for the wedding and then at the end feels depressed because it is over and she doesn’t have anything to occupy her time. I have seen it and it is sad.

Post # 16
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

I feel exactly the same way! I’m getting married on 9/18 this year, too…I guess at this point we’ve had our fill of planning (even though we’ve had a quick engagement and relatively low-key planning). I don’t want to deal with the details anymore, just want to see everyone at the wedding and be married!

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