(Closed) Anyone else tired of wedding planning?

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

no! i don’t mind wedding planning.  It’s wedding spending that’s giving me heart palpatations, haha.  I can’t wait to spend money on things besides hole punches and super glue.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I’ve felt like that before… as recently as two weeks ago. Now, I’m sad that it’s almost over and I don’t remember what I did before I planned a wedding! I think its just a huge roller coaster of emotions and that I’m ready to get off, lol!

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

Oh man, I am so tired of it.  I can’t wait until just over 3 weeks from now when it’s all off of our shoulders (and wallets!) and I never have to do it again ๐Ÿ™‚

Definitely give yourself a little break, for even a day.  De-stressing with a bottle of wine and cooking a nice meal always does the trick for me!

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

I am definitely over it and we still have so much to do. I’m ready for the honeymoon!

Post # 7
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I think for me, it comes in waves. If you get tired of it, back off of it for a day or so. Your wedding is coming up soon and it will all be over–so just try to destress!

Also, if your vendors won’t respond–go to their place of business. Tell them that you would appreciate it if they would respond to you in a timely manner, as your wedding is coming up and you have questions, and you really don’t feel like you’re asking too much.

Good luck and I’m sorry it’s been stressful! I bet it will be a beautiful day though ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: January 2010

@cinemaparadiso Me too. Right now the intense planning wave is on the low tide…I’m sure it will come back. But right now I feel I’m at a stand still and get kind of burned out looking at all the frickin’ options there are! OMG, people have so many great ideas! It’s kind of overwhelming.

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I was there two days ago! Literally rolled over away from my computer and said “okay, enough” You are SO close though, and when the day comes you will be SO happy you did it!

Post # 10
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2010 - Casa Real at Ruby Hill Winery

It comes in waves for me too, especially since my engagement is so long! I am in a “not into wedding planning” stage right now. I still read all the blogs and blog about my wedding but I’ve been avoiding meeting with florists and bakers even though i need to get on that.

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

we all get to that point too so while it seems like everyone on here is all lovey dovey with wedding planning, it’s not consistently the case. i had several occassions in my own planning when i was practically begging to just go down to city hall and get it all over with.

unfortunately that’s not always possible so.. take the anoon or day off and do something totally unrelated to the wedding. then call AND email each of your vendors and ask for a time / appointment to speak to them. go prepared with your list of questions / topics so you can get as much covered as possible during that time. as for your bridal party – they can help even if they’re long distance. think of ways you may be able to delegate to make it easier on you.

Post # 13
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

hug hug hug.

i agree with the other bees…it definitely does come in waves!  there are some days that i wish i could work on the wedding all day…then some in which i just feel overwhelmed and unaccomplished.  at my lowest, i was off WB for about three days…though it seemed like a lot longer when i came back, lol!  =D

Post # 14
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364 posts
Helper bee

I’m over it! Let’s do this already!!! That’s what I keep saying. Today I found out that the lady who was going to make our cookie favors can’t (she’s a BM’s mom – and it was a favor, so I’m not mad or anything), it just adds 1 more thing to the list. ๐Ÿ™‚ Breathe Ladies, in and out….. ::sigh:: Any better? ๐Ÿ˜‰

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

I’ve had that feeling this week. I think because I was Maid/Matron of Honor for my brother’s wedding in April and then now for my friend’s in November. So I’m exhausted. From all the party planning and dealing with emotional bridesmaids! LOL

I’m looking forward to her’s being here in November and hopefully taking at least a months break.  I’ve got most of my stuff done and what’s left can wait until Jan/Feb.

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