(Closed) Anyone else tired of…

posted 5 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Tired of talking about it?
    Yes! : (44 votes)
    55 %
    No! : (16 votes)
    20 %
    Meh, don't care either way : (20 votes)
    25 %
  • Post # 3
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    13014 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I felt like it a lot towards the end – and always with my Mother-In-Law.  Honestly, she and I didn’t see to eye to eye, so it got really hard to talk to her.  when she’d bring it up, I would try to change the subject as soon as I could because I didn’t want to hear anything else about it.

    Post # 4
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    3823 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I am. I have my “safe places” where I talk about wedding stuff to no end so that I don’t turn into that person who talks about their wedding non stop to anyone who will listen. This is one safe place and over email to my mom is another. 

    So when I’m posed with the “so how is it going? how’s the planning?” questions, I kinda feel like “ugh! can we talk about something else?” lol

    Post # 5
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    1409 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2009

    No, I like talking about it.. I get so excited talking about it haha maybe I’m the weird one though..

    Post # 6
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    2553 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @IzzyBear:  yeah with some people, like when they ask “what are your colors” and i say “we arent having colors” then they think they have to tell me I’m doing it wrong because I dont have colors. Or like the other day when I ran into an old friend I havent talked to in over 2 years. She asked when the wedding was and I said its in two weeks and everything is finalized. She said “oh darn, I might be out of town, let me see if there is anyway I can go see my mom the week after that so I can come see you get married.” Then I have to be polite and tell her we are only having 25 guests including us and the photographer.

    Other than things like that, I love talking about it with my very close  friends and family if they are interested. 🙂

    Post # 8
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    3823 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    No one has really met my Fiance so I tend to go off on a tangent talking about him and blushing like a school girl. I love/hate that part lol 

    Post # 9
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    2025 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @IzzyBear:  OMG YES! Everything I see someone I havent seen in a while the first thing i hear is about the wedding…”Are you still getting married?” “hows the wedding?” “hows the planning for the wedding?”….UGH! I will be so glad when its over!

    Post # 10
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    1161 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    @IzzyBear:  Yupp I’m tired of it and have been tired of it for a looong time. We went through a couple months of transition where we actually canceled our original plans. So all plans were TBD, and of course this is when EVERYONE was asking about the wedding. It was so frustrating because I kept repeating the same thing to the same people. And they would just offer an opinion (which I never asked for) and have a look of concern on their face. So now that we’re back in the planning stages and only had a total of 3.5 months (currently with 1 month left) to pull it off, I am overrrr ittttt! It’s overkill now.

    Post # 12
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    145 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: December 2014

    LOL  Yeah.  Been engaged since March 24th, and at least once a day since then…I hear “Have you done XYZ yet?  No?  You really should because….blah blah blah.”  Dude!  I have 18 months!  Leave me the hell alone!

     Oh, and a few (including friggin’ FAMILY members) have an issue with my date.  “You really shouldn’t wait so long.  He’ll leave you/find someone else/change his mind…blah blah blah.”  Seriously?  We’ve been together for 6 1/2 years.  If he ain’t left by now, pretty damn sure after 3 years of angst over picking me the perfect ring, he just might be serious about me and our life together.

    Post # 13
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    4495 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    yes!! Its so old and I feel like its the only conversation that occurs between some of my co-workers and I. Every.Single.Time I talk to some of them they ask the same question, “hows the wedding planning?” Umm lets see, same as it was 3 days ago. For crying out loud just talk to me about the weather or something. After the wedding I know its going to be constant baby talk, ugh.

     

     

     

    Post # 14
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    4803 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: September 2011

    Well, my wedding is over LOL but I definitely remember in the weeks/days leading upgetting soooo sick of people asking if I was excited or nervous. I started giving some people the wrong answer just to mess with them, because I’m a jerk. Now I feel that way about my pregnancy – I’m 5 days away from my due date and constantly get asked how I’m feeling. I’m 39 weeks pregnant, how do you THINK I’m feeling?! Huge, tired, having constant pains and the urge to pee all of the time, and I want to get this baby out of me! But usually I just settle for saying, “Really pregnant.”

    Post # 16
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    1475 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    YES! Mostly just with my mom though. She is ALWAYS talking about wedding related things and what needs to be done and who she talked to about this and who is coming and not coming and blah blah blah… Lets talk about something else already!!

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