(Closed) Anyone else want kids soon after marriage???

posted 4 years ago in TTC
Post # 31
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

We got married in August and started right away!  I have a daughter from a previous relationship so we have never really had “just us” time 🙂

Post # 32
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

I think you should do what feels right! But don’t worry about being “too old”. My grandmother is 92 and had my mom when she was 31! My mom had me when she was 31 and my sister when she was 35. My aunt had my cousin, who is the same age as me, when she was 36.

I am 30 and my Darling Husband is 29. We are following the family trend and waiting a bit to have our first because we know everything will change when we decide to have children, and we are really enjoying our time together right now. A lot of women in my life have told us to wait and just enjoy this time because you never get it back. So we are heeding their advice, it feels right to us 🙂 We were married August 2015.

Post # 33
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Busy bee

reptilelvr:  I have an appointment with my OBGYN on friday to talk to her on this to do to perpare for kids. We want to start trying right away. We are getting married in July. So you are not alone.

Post # 34
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2015

reptilelvr:  We got married in October of this year and we will start trying in February/March. Initially, we wanted to try immediately after the wedding, but reevaluated that about a week before. We were both a bit drained by the whole process and wanted to relax. We wanted to enjoy the holiday season as husband and wife before trying. I’m hoping to have a baby early 2017, which would put me at 26.5 and right around my ideal age to have babies. 

Post # 35
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

We started trying right away but that is because I am of advanced maternal age. I felt like I had no choice. 

Post # 37
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Bumble bee

reptilelvr:  We started trying 2 months before the wedding. In fact, the only reason we got married was to create our family. We have been together 8+ years.

Post # 38
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2016 - Sand Key Park- Clearwater Beach Elopement

Definitely not alone, my fiance and I are having an October 2016 wedding, and we plan to start TTC on the next cycle after the wedding. Right now my tracker is saying I’ll be ovulating about two days after the wedding, but depending on if it’s a day or so late or early between now and then I may or may not be fertile during that time.

Post # 39
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2015

We started right away and I got pregnant  about 4 months after our wedding. My babyshower will be on our first anniversary.

Post # 40
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2016

I say if your both feeling ready then keep trying! 

My fiance and I will be 28 and 32 when we get married next November 2016 and the plan is to go on our honeymoon we are thinking in March 2017 and then I will come off the pill then so hopefully mid to late 2017 I will concieve. 

Post # 41
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

I’m getting married in May and FH wants to start asap, while I want to wait until December.  We’re in our 30s, and I always thought I would wait at least a year to try, but I’m getting to that age of being considered high risk so we don’t want to wait too long.   It’s exciting to think about, but I am nervous about trying to soon….I’ll be sticking around to read the comments here for some insight!

Post # 42
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2015

I got married at the end of September and we’re planning to actively start trying in the spring. I just went off my BC and started tracking about a week ago, and for the moment we’ll be half-assedly avoiding. Both of us are 28 and we’d like to have three or four, maintain at least a couple years between all of them, and be done before we’re really pushing 40. I’d particularly like to have my first before I’m 30, but we’ll be cutting it close at this point, and it’s arbitrary of me to make that a goal anyway. For us, I think sooner rather than later is the right time, especially considering that we’ve been together for 10+ years, lived together for more than four of those, and both of us are settled in our careers.

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