(Closed) Anyone else’s FI dragging his feet about the wedding?Tell me it’s not just mine!

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
460 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

It is most definately not you. Fiance and I talked about getting engaged on a regular basis for 6 months before it happened… Now we are having a 2 year engagement… Men are just kinda like that. My fi also wants everything to be perfect even though that isn’t realistic. Talk to him about it (in a nice way) a time or two and let him see your side of things…

Post # 4
281 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I’ve been engaged since new years day, my Fiance still hasn’t asked his groomsmen. UGH! He knows who they are, but just hasn’t asked them. I tell myself “Don’t start your marriage out by nagging your Fiance for 2 years.” It’s hard. lol

Post # 5
3219 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

FH isnt dragging his feet about the ceremony, but the home town reception he is a pain. He just wanted me to keep all the money from my parents.

Post # 7
3788 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@spitfire229: I’m in the same situation — I’ve been engaged since July 2009 and my Fiance still hasn’t even picked his groomsmen, let alone ask them!

OP, you are not alone! It is a crappy feeling. I am sure that our fiances do ultimately want to marry us, but I do think that all the heel dragging is a passive aggressive way to postpone it until absolutely necessary. Like once we put out deposits, we’re locked in!

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