I can totally relate to that, my mom is awesome and all, but she can be a legit pain in the ass sometimes. Here is an example
Me: mom can u please make me tea?
Mom: no, too lazy
Me: Ok then.
(Two minutes pass by)
Mom: Ok fine I’m making you your tea, want anything with that?
Me: Oreos would be fine.
Then she legit flipped out on me, then she started walking away while screaming and yelling. So I held her wrist so she can calm down and we can have an adult conversation. Next thing I know is that she’s crying like a 10-year-old because I “Held her wrist too hard.” After that, this happens
me: Mom Listen to me! I don’t even know why your mad
mom: you’re using your physical strength against me
In my brain I’m like (wtf, how the hell am I using Physical strength? I just asked her to calm down and gently held her wrist.) But she appealed to my better nature so I’ll treat her the way she wants to be treated.
Me: Ok mom I’m sorry, can you now tell me how I made you mad.
mom: Your NOT DEPENDENT YOU EXPECT ME TO DO EVERYTHING FOR YOU BLA BLA BLA BLA. *After the word “You” I stopped listening to her BS
me: Mom.. MOM! can you listen to me? I’m pretty sure I did nothing wrong, I mea-
She cuts me off, then she says
Mom: off course, you’re never wrong.
Then she starts ranting and crying so I legit couldn’t hear a single word, so while she was talking I kinda got pissed and went to my room and closed the door while she was still screaming.
The whole point is, if she hadn’t refused to bring me Oreos, this wouldn’t have happened.
You see how stupid that argument was? and what was it worth, a bunch of Oreos?
It is really frustrating to live with overly dramatic parents.