(Closed) Anyone else’s SO being a HUGE jerk right now?

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Aww I’m sorry! ๐Ÿ™

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Aww hugs!! Did you explain to him why you are so upset? School and relationships are rough!

Post # 4
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Awww honey!!!! (((((((((((((((hugs))))))))))))))))))))))) I freaking hate those days. I hate it when I’m in a bad bad mood and Darling Husband just feels the necessity to make it worse. Ugh. Why do men do that?!?! Maybe go have a sleep over at a friend’s house, or read a book in another room? Take a night to yourself babe.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

awwwww, (((((HUGS))))) I’m sorry you’re having a rough time, and a rough time with your man.  I’ve totally had these days/weeks and they really DO suck!!! ๐Ÿ™  (It’s even worse when we’re BOTH tired and cranky, lol.  We also go for the throats… soooo… yeah.)

Maybe hang out with some friends? Vent on the boards (but not facebook!!!!) and/or your friends?  The ones who aren’t gonna hold it over him/you later, of course.  

Take a nice loooong bubble bath with a glass of wine, chocolate, and a good book?

 

Post # 6
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I’m sorry!!! ๐Ÿ™ Yes, me and Fiance get into some nice fights every now and again, especially right now because I just got into a nursing program and he is trying to get all the rest of his paperwork in for college too. So yeah…we’re stressed and have been grating on eachothers nerves lately. But we have our good days too. lol 

Anyhow I’m sorry he’s being like that right now. Just tell him you need some space and he’ll eventually get over whatever has him acting like a total jerk. 

 

Post # 8
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

Oh yeah,I guess it is Man-period time.Mine right now is getting grumpy cause im not leaving for his house now.I have been gone all day and he is bugging me about coming over.I just wanna sit on my butt!But we are fighting about how he doesn’t have a job/car/license.

I’m sorry he is being a meany pants.Guys just don’t get it.*hugs*Go out and have some fun tonight.It will help.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

My Fiance is being a twit lately. So you know what? Let him have his baby fit and I will go do something I WANT TO DO. I once went to a bookstore for half a day just to hide when we lived in a studio. Just go somewhere other than the apt unless you MUST be there. After a little bit of space he might calm down.

@Meowmixsong1121: man period = worse than woman period.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Ugh, I’m sorry! Can I vent too? My Fiance is also being a jerk the last few days. Since like two days ago he has started constantly asking me what’s wrong and that it seems like something is wrong. Why is he asking this? Because he cares and I seem stressed? No, because I apparantely haven’t been doing certain things for him enough lately. Not gonna get into it, Too Much Information. It’s true that I really haven’t, but I just started working full-time, and I’m still planning a wedding and doing most of the cooking and cleaning on top of that because he’s always at work and spends his only day off at band practice. Plus there’s the fact that he hasn’t been even a bit romantic lately, and complains whenever all the laundry isn’t done or dinner doesn’t get cooked. So excuse me for being tired and not being in the mood.

I feel like we’re picking at eachother over every little thing. Last night he was watching a scary/gross movie, this is the 3rd time in the last 4 nights. And I can’t watch scary movies, I will have nightmares for weeks and he knows it – he’s been waken up by me screaming during these nightmares and understands that I can’t handle them. So why is he suddenly watching them constantly, and why do I have to beg him to turn them off? I tried to talk to him about it and he asked why I was making a big deal out of nothing. UGHHH. He is never like this and I hope he snaps out of it soon, cuz if he thinks he can act like a jerk and I’ll magically be in the mood he is crazy.

 

Post # 11
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2010

Sounds a bit immature. Was not surprised that he is 20! What are you guys planning on doing with finances after you are married? He understands that the money for expenses goes to support both of you, and it will probably never be totally equal, and that marriage is about supporting each other through the lean times so that you can achieve your goals….right?

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