(Closed) Anyone feeling a bit stressed or overwhelmed? lol

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
Member
595 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2011

I’m in the same boat.almost wanting to quit lots of proyects I already started. Feeling so tired and overwhelmed too. I wish I can have someones help. I have a wedding planner but I’m doing lots of things still. What I do is I had been taking one thing at a time,but even though is so hard to deal with the big list. I hope you can beat that 🙂 good luck

Post # 5
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7761 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2010

Uh huh.  I posted earlier–our day is 11/27/10–next Saturday.

I’m melting down over expenses–of course it’s more than I planned & naturally fundage is lower than I would have expected it to be at this point.

 

Ugh.  I may have to break into savings, which makes me hyperventilate just thinking about it.

Where is the magic check fairy with those wedding gifts?

Post # 6
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190 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I;ve had a few of those meltdowns and this is what’s helped me. No one cares as much as you do, so don’t stress about the favors, centerpieces, and nonsense like that. Do make sure the music, food, and booze ( if you’ll have it) is on point lol….that’s about the only thing people will remember (sadly). Don’t look at everything on your list! That really helped me. just look at the top 1 or 2 and tackle it one at a time. How do you eat an elephant? One bite at a time. If you can, delegate the shower and bach party to your Future Mother-In-Law or your Maid/Matron of Honor. It would be awkward if you had to host these events yourself anyway. My Maid/Matron of Honor asked to do both my shower and bach party with help from others and its been fabulous because all she does is say, hey, what do you think about x, y, or z. I say it’s great and keep it moving. Also, DIY is great if you’re into it, but I’ve found that you’ll save yourself a lot of headache if you pay someone to do it and its in the budget. Just my two cents.

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