(Closed) Anyone Getting Tired of Planning?

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Are you tired of planning for the wedding?
    Yes, I'm ready to elope tomorrow! : (34 votes)
    69 %
    No, I'm going to plan until I collapse! : (7 votes)
    14 %
    What planning, I'm just going with the flow! : (8 votes)
    16 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    4355 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    With only a week to go, let me tell you… I wanted to throw in the towel several times. I will never plan another wedding again. Hang in there though, you get through it.

    Post # 4
    Member
    583 posts
    Busy bee

    @PMSJL:  “We don’t have a lot of time left”

    What?!  You have 9 months left!  I have 2 weeks left!  You have tons, and tons, and tons of time.  I had very few small details planned 9 months out.  You’re totally fine.

    Post # 6
    Member
    1253 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Lol, I have less then 2 months left and I am so over this process. You are still 9 months left so its no where near as stressful at that point. Don’t stress and enjoy the moment because as time passes you would want to elope, lol. 

    Post # 7
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    1401 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    You have a TON of time left! I have 7 days and I want to get off the crazy train! Just want to be married already. Relish the time you have, it goes by.

    Post # 8
    Member
    4150 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I loved planning until we hit a month out.  Now it’s overwhelming and I’m just ready for it to happen already.

    Post # 9
    Member
    114 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    My frustration is that the fiance wants to be a part of the planning but is taking his sweet time deciding when to do it! He says he’s got classes to plan and this and that and whatever else. He keeps saying there is plenty of time but Fall and Winter are the busiest times for us becaeuse we both teach. I wanted to get all the planning and venue picked this summer but no go. My family has been completely MIA too. 🙁  I’ve pretty much put myself into the place of – I don’t really care anymore. As long as we have the Mass that makes us married, I’m happy. Fiance can do the venue when he has time lol.

    Post # 10
    Member
    13 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I’m ready to throw in the towel myself.

     

    I’m praying that the adversary get outta my mind so I can finish strong but its very tough!!

     

     

    Post # 11
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    2692 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2012

    I had to take a break a few months ago.  But getting back into planning since I have less than 3 months now.  You still have time so space out your planning, don’t do everything at once.  I had about 9 months total to plan…it’s plenty of time.

    Post # 12
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    1326 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’m definetly ready to get married now, screw the rest of the details lol. Everytime I turn around there is another thing I didn’t think of, or something that I think I have to have, it’s just crazy. Not to mention the money being spent. I wish I would have went with my gut and got eloped, but at the same time I know me, I would have regretted it eventually, and so would have Fiance.

    Post # 13
    Member
    308 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Im an April 2013 bride too and completely understand.  I am the only person planning this wedding and it is a lot of pressure! I planned my first party ever (a small baby shower!) only a month ago and I’m supposed to plan the biggest day of my life perfectly – no pressure!

    Fiances are not much help really…it’s perfectly normal..mine is clueless (love him!) To make him more involved with something, he picked the flavor for a tier of the cake and I am giving him the job of picking our rentals.  

    I have already had a minor melt down once and have a feeling there will be more once it really gets closer! Thats why we have the bee 🙂 

    * Also check how much time you have left for bridesmaids dresses..I have to have the girls order theirs by October 16th to be on time with alterations.  Grooms attire is a bit later down the road of planning.

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