(Closed) Anyone have a bridal shower that wasn't a surprise?

posted 4 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Were you surprised for your shower?

    Yes!

    No, I requested to not be surprised

    No, I found out accidentally

    No, surprise showers are not custom in my area

  • Post # 31
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    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: September 2013

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    onceuponadream:  I live in the midwest.  I mean, I have heard of them (in the way that any party can be a surprise) but I’ve never been to them.  I don’t think they’re common.  I think every bride knows the date, time, and location but not the specific details.

    Post # 32
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    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I grew up on the east coast and live in Chicago now, I’ve also lived in Arizona. I’ve never heard of a surprise shower.

    Post # 33
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    Bumble bee

    I hate surprises. Never heard of a surpise shower. I’ve been to showers where the theme/colours/games etc were a suprise but not a suprise shower. 

    Post # 34
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    I’m in Chicago, and I’ve NEVER heard of a surprise shower! Like the bride usually isn’t involved with planing, but she knows when it is!

    Post # 35
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    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

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    onceuponadream:  This is not a thing in our area and I would hate it. I’m a planner so I would hate not knowing when it was going to happen.

    I’m from WI and have never been to a surprise shower.

    Post # 36
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: September 2017

    Add me to another who hasn’t heard of them being a surprise. Generally the bride gives the guest list, so it’s kind of hard for it to be a surprise when you ask for that haha.

    Post # 37
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    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: December 2016

    I’m from Australia and have also never heard of a surprise shower. I’m actually attending one in a couple of weeks for a friend and she is well aware of what’s happening.

    Post # 38
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    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: June 2015

    I had two showers – one was a surprise, one wasn’t. I accidentally found out about the surprise shower a week or two beforehand, but I was still surprised by some things (location, etc.)! I enjoyed my surprise shower more, but that was more due to the guest list (my friends and family vs. DH’s family and friends). 

    Post # 39
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I’ve lived in three different states and never been to a shower that was a surprise. 

    Post # 41
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    Bumble bee

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    onceuponadream:  I voted I requested, but it’s more of a I will request since it hasn’t happened yet. For me, I just don’t do well with surprises. I like to be prepared so I’m ready, and even though it’s probably against etiquette, I want a little say (as in not too big, something simple and low key, no games, etc) because I would hate to be miserable and seem unappreciative when it’s just that I don’t do well in that situation. 

    Post # 42
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    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2015

    I grew up in CT and now live in Boston and have never been to a surprise shower. I’ve heard of them but no one I know has actually had one in real life. 

    Post # 43
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    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2015

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    onceuponadream:  I had three, none of which were surprises. That’s not really a “thing” here. 

    I would have been SUPER STRESSED OUT if I thought I was having a surprise shower. I thought that maaaaybe my paternal cousins were going to turn a girls-day-tea into a sort of shower for me and got dolled up. (It ended up being just tea but they asked when I was free to have a shower hosted by them.) If I had had to get gussied up every damn weekend in case I was going to be stared at by all my nearest and dearest I would have lost it. 

    Post # 44
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    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2016

    I’m from Georgia and have also never heard of a surprise shower! That seems crazy to me!

    Post # 45
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    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2016

    I am from Georgia! My Maid/Matron of Honor is planning my shower and asked if I had a specific theme that I might want, but I dont really know anything else.  I’ll be getting my makeup done that morning and wear a cute dress but that is all I know! lol.  They kinda have to tell me about the shower because I am coming in from VA.  

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