Post # 1
I read a lot about how people’s bridesmaids and Maid of Honors aren’t stepping up. Does anyone have absolutely AMAZING bridesmaids that they want to talk about? I’d love to hear it!!
Mine are fantastic and all of them are responsible and amazing women.
For my bachelorette, my 6 wonderful bridesmaids are taking me somewhere out of the country (US) to somewhere warm, right next to the beach for FIVE DAYS! They even invited a close friend of mine to come along!!
They sure know how to make someone feel loved and I’m so glad to have them in my life.
Does anyone else feel that way about their bridesmaids? Please share!! I want to hear happy things!!
Post # 3
Sounds like you have great bridesmaids.
I am only in the very early stages of planning so we haven’t been through much yet but all of my girls have been great offering help and ideas non stop (helps that two of them are also planning weddings and want to bounce ideas around between us)
Post # 4
I love my girls! They haven’t done too much yet, but so far has been a breeze. I have 3,1 is my sister.they are all still in college so I’m not putting too much pressure on them. One has given me an awesome at home workout video and book, and this amazing skin cream that is way too expensive. I left them pick their dress, and they happened to pick the only one I had circled (it looked so amazing on all of them.). The worst was that we were stuck between pewter and dark dark purple, and no one said any preference, so I went with purple (even though I was originally thinking grey) because it looked the best on their skin. They are all coming over this weekend and are helping me assemble and address invitations (I’m going to make a nice lunch). They are also planning a shower and Bach party, which I apparently am not allowed to know anything about. It is so cute, they are always asking ‘how do you want our hair’ etc etc. Most of the time I’m like ‘I don’t care!’ But then I am very laid back. Also, their hair… I have a brunette with short curly hair, a redhead with med wavy hair, and a blond with past her butt very straight hair. I don’t want to pick something that will work with all that! Just do it your favorite way! They all wanted to go free shopping with me, purchased their dresses that day too, will help me (excitedly!) With any DIY (inc flowers). They are just awesome! I have good BFFs
Post # 5
My bm’s have all been great they all want to help in any way they can but me being me I’m trying to make things simPle for everyone and haven’t asked for much my moh is awesome she reached out to my cousin, by phone call even (they haven’t met) to talk about my bachelorette, my mom and mil want to plan the shower so they don’t even need to do that just show up and help,which I didn’t request they just offered. I wish I had a bigger budget for there gifts they deserve something nice.
Post # 6
Sounds like you have amazing bridesmaids! Happy for you! Mine are ok, I’ve had my share of bm drama but the girls I have now are great and I’m satisfied with them. Have offered their assistance but me being the control freak that I am will probably only take the minimum haha… but super excited for my first bachelorette party as well, gonna be in VEGAS! Even though only 2 of my bm’s are going, it’s gonna be a blast. Gonna plan a second one so the rest of the girls can attend back at home.
Post # 7
Mine are great 🙂
I really don’t expect anything of them though. My Maid/Matron of Honor has totally stepped up, she helped SO much with my engagement party (made us a surprise cake, decorated, made some finger foods, she was SO helpful)! She usually asks about wedding planning, has looked into ideas for us ect.
My 2 younger sisters are also BM’s and they REALLY helped with the engagement party too. We had a sandwich line going while we were rocking out to music lol (we just had a laid back e-party with finger food, so we made a lot of it). My other Bridesmaid or Best Man couldn’t come to our e-party as she had booked a holiday RIGHT before we sent out invites haha, but I know she would have helped if she were there. Also, a shout out to my mum and aunty! Also super helpful (helped making food, cleaning up and setting up, aunty took lovely pictures). My step-mum too, she made the NICEST platters of vegetables, crackers, dips, kabana and cheeses! None of my girls live near me though, and planning has been really easy so far, so they really haven’t been able to help much except at the e-party, but they were all SUPER helpful and considerate! Gosh I love them. I seriously couldn’t believe the effort my Maid/Matron of Honor went to, and my sisters were amazing, we had such fun making the food, and my mum, step-mum and aunty were totally awesome! I’m lucky to have so many great people around me!
Post # 8
My Future Sister-In-Law is going to stand up for me, even though she’ll be 38 weeks pregnant at the wedding! She’ll have a chair, but still. Super nice!
And my sister is my Maid/Matron of Honor. She’s doing my nails for the wedding (she’s a nail artist!). She also picked to wear the more conservative, less flattering Bridesmaid or Best Man dress (she’s a college cheerleader, so she’s like a size 0 and even though I’m only a 4… Anyway, she’s awesome like that.)
Post # 9
This is amazing to read, I’m glad that bridesmaids are really stepping up and being awesome!! It makes me sad when people post about their irresponsible or uncaring bridesmaids. 🙁
Post # 10
I am so fortunate to have my 4 girls in my life! I have my two amazing sisters as co-maids of honor and then my best friend since high school and my Future Sister-In-Law. I love all of them! They are all so laid back and fun to be around. They are incredibly supportive and I know they want to help make things as easy and stress-free as possible 🙂
I hadn’t officially announced who my girls would be at the time, but my sisters and our close friends got together and threw us a surprise engagement party 🙂 I had never had a surprise party and they definitely got us. They had a slideshow, awesome food, and an adorable cake with a handmade topper that fit us so well! They took a lot of time to do everything and it was amazing!
I can’t wait to start the festivities with them!!
Post # 11
Yup, I love ’em. I’m in mid-planning and my best friend, who isn’t really my Maid/Matron of Honor since my sister is, has already tried on the two dress options and modeled them. She’s helped me go round and round on the color choice. My Maid/Matron of Honor (my sis) is actually paying for my photographer! They are going to throw me a shower and a bachelorette party and I know it’s going to be fun and drama free. The girls have constantly offered to help and I know they will help even more when we get closer to it. One of my BMs went out to the venue with me and did a mock walk down the aisle so I can time the music right…they’re just wonderful and they are all getting along so well!
Post # 12
I think mine are amazing regardless of what they have/haven’t done for the wedding!
Post # 13
I was planning a wedding here, in Michigan. Then, we decided to get married in Georgia so I told my girls they were in NO WAY obligated to come, it was going to just be immediate family and very intimate blah blah blah….I did not expect them to spend the money to travel PLUS we are having a reception at home the following weekend.
They insisted that they were not going to miss my wedding and 3 of them are SO excited to buy dresses, travel and stand by my side as I get married. I have AWESOME friends.
Post # 14
My Maid/Matron of Honor has been amazing!!! She has been there every step up the way. I love planning the small details of the wedding. But some of the bigger things I just wasn’t into. She found my venue, helped me pick my dress. She’s planning my shower, along with my mom and sister which is on Sunday. And I know its going to be awesome. She’s helped with with my DIY projects. I can’t even say all the things she has done reguarding the wedding. She’s got to be just as excited as my Fiance and I. I really don’t think this wedding would be underway the way it is, if it wasn’t for her 🙂
Post # 15
All five of my girls have been so awesome. Unfortunately, three of them live out of town (two of them out of state), but they’ve been great even from afar! My Maid/Matron of Honor is SO excited for her speech and said she’s got most of it worked out already (!!!), plus has been making tons of lists and gathering ideas for my bachelorette party. One of my BMs started a Pinterest board to pin ideas for me (which is very sweet, despite me not needing it). My cousin just texted me to tell me that she’s sending me an early Valentine’s/”you’re getting married this year!” gift. FI’s little sister is super excited and has been helping with ideas as much as she can. The last Bridesmaid or Best Man might actually not be able to make it–she lives across the country and her time off request got denied (despite putting it in right after the New Year!) because there’s a chance that work might need her those two or three days. She actually just interviewed for a new job partially because of that (and also because her new supervisor is awful).
I’ve heard no complaints about the shoes or dresses (okay, one Bridesmaid or Best Man wasn’t super happy that they’re pink, but I showed her the swatch and she got over it–it’s very light pink, and I told her she could choose a long dress and wear a cardigan if that made her more comfortable), or…anything at all. They’ve just been wonderful.
Post # 16
My 6 bridesmaids are the best! They are always there to help when I ask which isnt much since I like to do alot on my own. I was in a wedding a few years ago and the girl was a bridezilla and not very nice to her bridesmaids…..I vowed never to be that way and to keep my friends when the wedding is over