Post # 32
@shutterpeak2122: Is it possible to tell her that you are excited and very happy to her but are worried about the financial aspect of being her bridesmaid? Maybe you two can work things out by her choosing less expensive bridesmaid dresses and having a low-key bachelorette party? Or maybe she would even be willing to pay for the dress?
I’m sorry that you are going through this. 🙁 Weddings can be expensive and it’s hard when you are in one and having one all in the same year. I have a Bridesmaid or Best Man whose wedding was in Sept. and mine is in Jan. We are being bridesmaids in each other’s weddings and I, too, was worried about the finances.
Post # 33
i was engagedd a few months before my brother and close friend but now i have my brothers wedding in may then my close friend in june and then mine finally in september. i couldnt care less because all of our weddings are different and we can talk about the details all we want. finances are taken into account but for friends and family money isnt an issue to me.
Post # 34
I have a bm that is getting married about a month and a half after our wedding and I am also a bm in her wedding
Post # 35
I have two friends (that are also friends) getting married about a month apart from each other. One of them doesn’t seem to have a problem with it, and the other one thinks it is absurd and kicked the other girl out of her wedding for upstaging her! So I’ve seen this (and fortunately stayed out of the drama). When you ask someone, you can say, I know it is clsoe to your wedding, so if you don’t want to, I understand!
Post # 36
I will have two ladies in my wedding getting married. My maid of honor and my best friend is getting married a month before me!