Post # 1
I have 2 MOH’s. A man of honor (my gay BFF from college) and a maid of honor (our mutual close friend from college).
Anyone who had 2 MOH’s…how did you split up duties? Who gave the speech, or did they do it together? Who sat at the head table? How did your Fiance & the best man feel about it?
Post # 3
I didn’t have 2 MOHs but I was one of two at my best friend’s wedding. It worked out fine. We both sat at the head table, we both gave seperate speeches. For the shower we both split the tasks (I really did more, but i’m okay with that)
Post # 4
I will be having two! One is a matron of honor and the other is a maid of honor. I live in MN, but grew up in WI. One is from MN and one is WI, so I am not splitting up the duties at all. Each will be hosting a bridal shower and bach party. They both are very gracious and will be helping each other out for the parties.. and on the day, I would imagine they will each get their speech, sit with us at the head table and be there to keep me sane. My matron of honor will be “first” in line as I have known her since 2nd grade…
Post # 5
I have two as well, and Fiance has two Best Men. We’re not doing parties at all except for a day before get together (semi-destination wedding) so hoping both gals will help that to run smoothly though I have plans including gifts and massages for that day.
For me it is really wonderful having two MOH’s. One lives very far away (another country) but she has a lot of free time (or did before she gave birth lol). So she was really up on looking stuff up and sending me links to things I might like. The other is FI’s sisters and she lives about an hour away and has been super sweet to come visit and help with tying bows on the bridal jewelry and gave input on the invites etc.
Post # 6
I’m having my sister as my maid of honor and my best friend as my matron of honor. my sister is going to do the speech I think but I heard them saying that they might also do part of it together. neither my sister nor my friend have been involved much in my wedding since I’m doing pretty much all the planning with my mom. my cousin and aunts are throwing me the bridal shower.
Post # 6
I’m having both my sisters as bridesmaids, and no other bridesmaids so I guess in a way they’re both Maids of Honour (I just felt bad choosing either over the other so I didn’t pick one to give the title to). I’ll probably have them do a speech together or my sister who’s less shy will. I’m not having either of them sign the certificate though. I’m curious to see what other Bees are doing.