(Closed) Anyone have this happen to them?

posted 11 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
2200 posts
Buzzing bee

Kinda- but no. My SO and I got into an argument back in November during on of my emotional rants and at that time he mentioned that he was going to propose the following month… not sure how because he didn’t have a ring but I guess our argument made him reveal his thoughts.

When he finally does it- no I don’t know anything and do not wish to know anything besides that he has the ring and it is coming.

Post # 4
167 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

My Fiance and I were in Paris on vacation. I didn’t know my Fiance was going to propose until I noticed that he kept carrying his laptop bag with him EVERYWHERE.  Seriously, everywhere he went, the bag followed.  My curiosity got the best of me and I peaked in the bag and saw the thing.  It was our second to last day there, so I knew he was going to propose soon.  I felt like it ruined the surprise for me and I’m bummed that I looked.  He doesn’t know I looked, and I acted totally surprised, but still, I hate that it ruined it for me. 🙁

Post # 5
1412 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I had actually figured out the day he was going to propose but told my best friend and my sister so they secretly told him I knew. So, he completely threw me off and I had no idea by that night when he actually had decorated the whole house and had the whole amazing thing set up. So, it didn’t ruin anything for us because he just refused to let me not be surprised lol

Post # 6
366 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014 - Ranch

I had a similar thing happen to me that happened to Armychica06. We got in an argument in November as well. I don’t even remember what it was about lol He is not the fighting type, and I say everything that is on my mind so when he wouldn’t answer me in our argument I was like FINE. JUST LEAVE! Later, I told him WELL, SINCE IT WON’T HAPPEN NOW, CAN YOU TELL ME WHEN YOU WERE GOING TO PROPOSE? BECAUSE I COUGHT YOU IN A LOT OF THINGS AND I KNOW YOU WERE GOING TO DO IT and he said IN DECEMBER!! I was like ooohhh gooshhh I killed it hahaha We made up by the end of November and I knew that now i had to wait another while because he wanted it to be a complete surprise.

I know it’s coming because of a few things that he has slipped up and said. I think it is going to be some time this month, I have a SLIGHT idea of it being on Sunday (“our valentines day”) I don’t know what the ring will look like. All I know is the shape and approximate size because he wanted me to be happy with those two so he did ask me if those options were okay.


Post # 7
1961 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

Yep.  That’s how it was with me.  Except, he didn’t tell me the when/where/how, I just had it figured out. lol  I’m glad I did, because I HATE surprises.

Post # 9
3218 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

My guy would have hated if I knew ANYTHING. He refused to do anything cliche and wanted total surprise. I was, and I wouldn’t have wanted it any other way.

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