(Closed) Anyone have those HORRIBLE waiting days!!!! This is one of them for me!!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
31 posts

@luvstoshopsd:  Oh pick me! My mother and I have been having some issues recently and last weekend we had a heart to heart and got through some stuff. Including discussing that she has been totally unsupportive of me and SO. So when she called this weekend she opens with “So how can I help with the wedding?” Oh you mean the wedding that will probably happen in May but will not be planned until he actually proposes? You could not bring it up until I’m engaged.

SO had me bookmark my ideal setting on his computer a month ago and mentioned that he already had a stone from his grandmother… ever since I’ve been a bit of a basket case. Especially since he said he was ready to buy it. He also wants to be married after I graduate but before we move for my new job out of state which puts us at 8 months for him to propose and for us to plan a wedding.

But at least I have homework to keep me busy.

Post # 4
3468 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I have days where I wish time would go faster (SO is waiting to propose until after graduation from my BS degree in May), but then I rememeber how much I love him and how much he loves me. No matter what I get to see my wonderful man every single day and kiss him every morning when I wake up. That will not change when we get engaged. I try to focus on the positive things and things have been so much better. Sure you get jealous other women are engaged and you’re not, but that does not mean their relationship is better than yours! Your SO will propose! Just give it some time and enjoy your last few months as his girlfriend!

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