(Closed) Anyone have to visit the family and STILL sleep in separate rooms?

posted 10 years ago in Married Life
Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Honestly I would just be straightforward – you are married adults. I dont really understand parents not letting couples sleep together even before marriage. Fine if you want to control your kids that no longer live in your house but if your grown child is in a relationship and they are an adult they should be able to make their own decisions…..I guess Im just not old fashioned and have a hard time understanding it!

Post # 34
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

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@JoesWifey: OMG that is hilarious! Why are moms so crazy about grandkids!?!

Post # 35
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I’m curious, did you parents explain or give a reason why you should sleep seperately post-wedding? How did it come about in the first place?

Good luck talking to them. 🙂

Post # 37
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

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@lisalulu: awww! Im glad they made the change though! No more cat hair!!

Post # 38
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2012

I’m glad they opening up to change. Cause that was just so bizarre you’d have to sleep separately.

Post # 39
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Haha this is hilarious!!!

My parents prefer that my fiance and I sleep in separate rooms when visiting them, but he’s 24 and I’m 22 and we are not yet married. I’m glad your parents are okay with the change! 🙂

Post # 40
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Haha…..wow :-P. When we first got married, it felt a little weird for us to sleep together at someone elses house, especially at my parents, but it would have been weirder not to. We always sleep on the pull-out couch in the living room

Post # 41
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@lisalulu:

Sorry to bring up an old thread but I’d love some input. My Mother-In-Law puts us in separate rooms but I don’t want to say anything because the rooms only have twin beds and I know that could be a reason. I feel like visiting less. What to do?

Post # 42
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: December 2010

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@Cola262: You could put the twin beds together. 😛 Or an easier fix, just buy an air mattress. 

Post # 43
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

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@Sweet.Sugar.Rose:

sleep in his is sister’s old room on a twin mattress on the floor. (his sister visits too) He sleeps in his old room which is tiny and cannot fit a full mattress. Oh well, will it always be this way? Because they preserve their adult kids’ rooms so completely I don’t think switching rooms with the sister is an option.

Post # 44
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

Anyone else with this issue? All of your in laws have a guest room or something?

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