(Closed) Anyone in someone elses wedding?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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7293 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

If you can get in touch with any other bridesmaids so you can all be on the same page about showers, bathelorette etc.

I know its tempting to look at things and want them for yourself or to be worried about giving away your own ideas! Let Future Sister-In-Law bounce feedback off of you and just be there for her.

The biggest problem brides on here seem to have with their bridal party is lack of communication and motivation 🙂

Post # 5
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1526 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@QuinnLynn7:  I think your main job is to just be supportive.  Every bride is different too.  I am currently a bridesmaid in a friend’s wedding and she is very easy going.  I have done the usual things such as dress fittings, bridesmaid dress shopping, lunches, bridal shower and bachelorette.  Other than that, despite numerous offers, all she has asked of me are song suggestions.  She emails sometimes and bounces ideas off me but mainly she takes care of everything herself and we are just around if she needs us.  I am UNBELIEVABLY lucky in the bridesmaid department!

On the other hand, some brides are super needy and want you there every step of the way.  You will learn as time passes what kind of bride your Future Sister-In-Law will be and then judge from there how active of a roll you will have.

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