(Closed) Anyone intentionally not wear your blingy engagement ring?

posted 6 years ago in Rings
Post # 3
4656 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@gramgeek:  This is the reason I wouldn’t have wanted anything especially huge or blingy. I travel a lot — I spend time in locations where that sort of thing might make me feel either rude or unsafe to show off blatantly. What I have is amazing (a gorgeous black diamond) but it isn’t excessively blingy, so in a way, it’s like our secret. 

Post # 4
6355 posts
Bee Keeper

Blinginess is relative… I’m sure everyone’s ring can be seen blingy by someone else… and in contexts where mine is by far blingier than average, that’s when I won’t wear it. I will just wear my wedding band or a simple stand-in during those times. I already do something like this with my handbags, etc. It’s not that different than dressing for the weather, really. On a related note, I also won’t wear my engagement ring when I think I’m going to be doing an activity that could damage it.

Post # 5
1471 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I understand, kind of. I live in Japan, where my half carat is huge (unlike on the Bee!), and most of the women around me simply wear plain bands. As a result it gets talked about, touched, played with etc (I actually let my students wear it, but that’s a different story!). Because the engagement ring is important to Fiance and me, I won’t stop wearing it, but there have been a few times I have been tempted to turn it onto the ‘plain’ side.

Post # 6
1238 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Definitely not!  I actually think that taking it off would also draw attention leading to the question of, “I thought you were engaged. Where’s your ring? how do you explain that?  I didnt want you to be jealous??  

I do turn mine backward when I walk through dangerous areas (aka to my parking garage downtown).  Also my mom wants me to take it off or wear a diff ring when I meet vendors so they are more willing to bargain! Lol. My 1.4 carat is pretty huge for my area, though I feel like it is fairly average on the bee!

Post # 7
116 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I take mine off for any kind of exercise, whether it be lifting weights at home or running at the park. Nothing ever happens when I’m running, but I’m paranoid that if I’m wearing my ring, I’ll fall for sure and scrape it up. Tongue Out

When I’m walking to my building to go to work in the mornings, I’ll turn it around so the stone can’t be seen. I work downtown, and although it’s mostly safe, things DO happen. I go in very early while it’s still dark and quiet (and a little scary) on the streets, so I don’t want to take any chances. It’s starting to be chilly in the mornings though, so gloves will take care of that!

Post # 8
2903 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Heck no! But of course my 1ct princess does not draw very much attention. lol.

Post # 9
1565 posts
Bumble bee

When I was working in a tutoring centre, I was embarrassed about wearing it. I didn’t for several shifts after I got engaged. Then I wore it, and not a single person noticed. I wanted to put my engagement ring away for going out on the weekends, but my Mom convinced me to enjoy it, and I know my husband would be hurt if I didn’t. The only time I take it off is to wash my hair, bake, make meatballs, or clean the bathroom. I won’t wear it on our honeymoon next year. Otherwise it is on all the time. Since having my wedding band I think I admire my engagement ring more than ever because its a new perspective now.


Post # 10
3618 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

My ring is blingy. It has diamonds on all sides of it so it blings from every angle. While I don’t avoid wearing it, I do fold my arms and hide it at times. Mostly around work where it has drawn negative (snarky) comments. I always wanted a blingy ring, and I am a blingy girl, so I am surprise to find that I do get self conscious when people comment on my ring.

Post # 11
1902 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

At first, I didn’t wear mine too much because jewellery isn’t my thing to begin with, and having a big blingy ring just felt uncomfortable. Not to mention I got a few comments from some of my nastier co-workers about “are you sure it’s big enough?”

Now, I wear it pretty much all the time, but if I’m doing physical work, I’ll usually leave it at home – exercise, farm work, gardening, etc. are just a pain when wearing a big ring.

Post # 12
14661 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

No way.  Darling Husband spent a lot for time and cash on this time.  I’m wearing the hell out of it as long as it’s safe to do so.  It’s also not huge where I’m from, so I feel perfectly fine with it

Post # 13
1381 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

The only time I felt the slightest bit weird about wearing mine was when I first got it.  My family wanted to celebrate by having a dinner for us.  My older sister who had been living with her beau for 5 years already had baked us a cake and everything..!  I just felt bad that it should’ve been her first.  But no worries, she got engaged 10 days later haha

Post # 14
1063 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I feel pretty comfortable wearing mine (1ct moissanite) around.  It’s not unusual for where we live now or where we grew up. 

However, I’ve been looking into doing some volunteer work in less-affluent parts of the city.  I have a simple sapphire on a gold band that Fiance gave me a few years ago that I would probably wear in that situation.

Post # 15
10453 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2014

Hell no! Love my ring and wear it always. I’ve had to take it off before at work when I’m out in the field but that’s it. 

Post # 16
3697 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I didn’t wear mine on our honeymoon, but I was more worried about losing it than anything.  Other than that I’ll wear it anywhere.  I don’t always – sometimes just my wedding band, but that has nothing to do with the company I keep. 

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