Post # 1
Or am I the only one?
By X rated, I mean penis everything.
Penis straws, penis hats, penis candy, penis earrings, penis shot glasses, etc.
I used to be a bartender. I once witnessed a bachelorette party come in with the bride to be wearing a shirt with suckers taped to it. She went around asking all of the guys if they want a suck for a buck? If you’ve never heard of this game, the guy is supposed to pay the bride a dollar to remove one of the suckers from her shirt with his mouth. They also had a huge blow-up penis.
My ideal bachelorette party you ask? Hotel suite, spa package, a small hole-in-the-wall bar, and lots of vodka. No penises and no male strippers.
P.S. I’m not a prude by any means 😉 those type of parties are just not my style.
Post # 3
@MichiganGirl24: I’m totally with you! I hate being the center of attention and I am not a fan of those types of parties either. I’d much rather go to the spa and have a nice dinner and drinks.
Post # 4
Couldn’t agree more! My ideal bachelorette party will be something classy and fun. Spa day, cooking session with great wine, and an upbeat lounge.
Over the top partying is something that I’ve long grown and I have no desire to get back into it.
Even if my fiance and his friends want to do something intense for their bachelor party, I’m happy for them and will stick to my own type of party.
Post # 5
@MichiganGirl24: Not my thing either. In fact, I had no desire to be paraded around in a veil and tiara to every bar in town either.
That said, my BP did include some penis tissue paper in a gift bag, penis ice cubes, and penis shaped pasta in a pasta salad, HOWEVER it was done in the privacy of my MOH’s home (she has a full bar with basically a dance floor) so I was more than ok with that. It was pretty subtle, and certainly not public.
Post # 6
I just had my bachellorette and it was completely non-penis related 😉
AND IT WAS SUCH A BLAST!
We had manicures, ate amazing food, drank our faces off and danced til 3am.
Best. Night. Ever.
Post # 7
No you aren’t alone! My party consisted of a few mixed drinks and MOH hourse, dinner then a movie. Came back to her house and basically watched Bridesmaids. It was relaxing and full of fun. I loved it!
Post # 8
@MichiganGirl24: My only request for my bachelorette was no penis paraphenalia. The girls obliged and we had a blast. Spent a quiet evening at a newer, hip bar in town at a private table and had cake. It was perfect.
Post # 9
Definitely my thing either. I think its just a little too over the top for me…i’m more of an easy going, lay low kinda person. lol
Post # 10
Soooo not a fan. I’m glad mine won’t be centered around a peens.
Post # 11
Mine was themed “a hint of penis”. We went on a winery tour – hit 4 different wineries in my area.
We had penis shaped name tags (they were small, and not everyone wore them). then there were some prizes for things (all games were non-penis related) and the prizes were sex/penis themed but were in a bag so there was no OVERT penis.
I’m 38. All of my friends are around my age. We have seen many penises. We didn’t need any more 🙂
Post # 12
I’m so against this, personally. I’m much more calm and laid back than the penile shtick. I imagine my bachlorette party (if I even have one) would be completely opposite of others. I want to be able to show the pictures to my family.
Post # 13
I would LOVE to go to a SERIOUSLY X-rated bachelorette party! Like pole dancing lessons followed by clubbing followed by strip club. Not as the bride, though. As a lesser BM!
But my bachelorette was SUPER tame! We we did a girl’s day shopping, coffee, dinner and drinks, and out dancing at 80s night (in Vermont, 80s night is ULTRA tame. Like, people in their 40s are the primary club go-ers). Then we had a big sleepover!
Post # 14
@MichiganGirl24: Yeah not my style. The penis paraphenalia is tacky in my opinion.
Post # 16
@BrandNewBride: Sounds like a great time!
I wouldn’t mind the pole dancing. I’m such a dork though, I would probably make a fool out of myself.
I’ve been to a stripclub or two in my day, and they’re just dirty and not hot, IMO.