(Closed) Anyone NOT particulary romantic?

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
Hostess
18637 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

My husband is very anit-PDA and I’m okay with that.  For me, it sort of icks me out to see people who can’t be anywhere without touching eachother.  I feel secure with my husband even if we aren’t in constant contact.

Post # 4
Member
333 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

That is pretty much exactly how we are too.

Post # 5
Member
2496 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

We’re very much so non-PDA!!  Ewww…  sometimes when we’re out places to eat, we end up not sitting next to each other and we’re both totally ok with it.  People look at us weird, but we don’t care.  We don’t have to be constantly touching/talking/looking at each other.

We are MUCH more affectionate in private, though.  It’s kind of funny seeing the warm, fuzzy, romantic side of Fiance when we’re alone, then the ‘tough guy’ come back out when we’re around people. 🙂

Post # 6
Member
414 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

My Fiance is more romantic than me.  He is more sensitive and he has no problem being called “mushy.”  I’m just not a touchy, PDA person.  I say don’t worry about it, who cares what other people think!

Post # 7
Member
4824 posts
Honey bee

I think there is a difference between PDA and displays of general affection such as opening doors, putting his hand on the small of your back as you walk through, holding your chair out, refilling your glass from the bottle of wine, offering to get a drink, helping with a coat or offering to hand it up etc etc etc.  I think these things are romantic and noticeable by other people without being the “icky” PDA

Post # 8
Member
3049 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

My fiance is extremely romantic. And I’m opposite. He loves PDA so much! At first I was really against it, but now I guess I’m just used to it. I’m still the non-romantic one in the relationship though. 🙂

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