Post # 17
YES!! My friend’s SO. They’ve been together for years and years, and NOT ONE PERSON I’ve ever met has liked him in the slightest. This includes her family, our mutual friends, my Fiance or any previous bfs I’ve had. He’s an absolute ASS. He’s super critical and arrogant, and he doesn’t even treat her well! I REALLY hoped he woudlnt’ be able to make the trip to PA for our wedding but as it stands – he’s coming=(
I also no longer like one of my bridesmaids, but that’s a WHOOOOLE other story!
Post # 18
CANNOT STAND THE BEST MAN!!!!!
Post # 19
We were really trying to keep our wedding to immediate family, close family friends, and close friends — all people who Fiance and I have known for a long time. However, we compromised in a couple of cases. We added a couple of friends who we’re not really crazy about, just b/c it got to a point where we were seeing them a lot, and we felt rude not inviting them. We also had to add one of my dad’s golf buddies who we’ve never met, b/c my dad felt rude discussing the wedding with all of his other golf buddies (who I’ve known since childhood), when this one guy wasn’t invited. I think that one is going to be a little awkward, b/c he *is* planning on attending the wedding, and he will literally be the only guest who does not know either the bride or the groom.
Post # 20
I know how you feel..sadly unless you have a very small intimate wedding there will be ppl on the guest list you or your Fiance do not really care for OR even do not like. There are couple of his old buddies who we ended up inviting ..i do not c them as REAL friends by any standards…i known him for years and i have met any person or group of ppl important to him or some not to close ones in a bigger party..however some ppl made it to the list thu I HAVE NEVER me them because “they go way back” we actually got into some argument because i told him i can add MANY ppl to the list that i “go way back” with..jsut because u once enjoyed their company does not MEAN they have to be on our list. Also if they have never cared to met me..or know me or even C HIM recently they really do not deserve it..
I have just come to accept it but secretly wish they they would not come 🙂
Post # 21
Yes, my cousin! She’s a selfish little self-righteous brat who tried to turn my whole family against me 4 years ago!! Luckily it didn’t work, but it was totally crazy how she went about it. To my face she actually told me I was a horrible person adn I don’t deserve to be loved and a ton of awful stuff.
I wish my wedding was bigger so we didn’t have to see her at all!
Post # 22
Thankfully she didnt accept but we had to invite this girl that I really dislike. She is the daughter of my MIL’s best friend but lives in Florida (our wedding was in CA). At BIL’s wedding 5 years ago I couldnt attend and she was there totally hitting on my husband (BF at the time). He told me she went to his room after that he was sharing with a friend and they all hung out but she totally tried to stay there and spend the night.
Then the next day I was at the day after brunch next to BF and she was on the other side obviously flirting with him, massaging his shoulder, etc and she KNEW we were together and had been for over 2 years. So obviously I never liked this girl and didnt want her at my wedding. Thankfully she didnt accept and we havent seen her since (and she never even sent back her RSVP card!) 🙂
Post # 23
butterflylover, this sounds like us: “some ppl made it to the list thu I HAVE NEVER me them because “they go way back” we actually got into some argument because i told him i can add MANY ppl to the list that i “go way back” with..jsut because u once enjoyed their company does not MEAN they have to be on our list.”
My Fiance just has a longer list of “ohh, but we were really close at one time…” people than I do, in addition to the aforementioned list of snobby uppities that I don’t care about…
Post # 24
I hate my FIs cousin. She is mean to me, she calls me the wrong name (his ex gfs name) ON PURPOSE… she’s a total cow. I said I wouldn’t invite her, but I couldn’t tell my Future Mother-In-Law “no”. Honestly, if she went missing… it wouldn’t be the worst thing in the world. Just sayin’.
Post # 25
Okay so my bf thinks we are going to not only invite but include his ex-friend in the wedding party… just because he always planned to have him in the wedding. this guy attempted to break us up on multiple occasions, has been so rude to me, would bring my bf’s ex-gf to my boyfriends apartment and then get pissed when we were upset!!! I told him they arent close anymor, he’s a hurtful jerk, and he wont be at my wedding. BF has WAY too many people he wants to include in the wedding already and we arent even engaged yet.
Post # 26
My FI’s brother’s girlfriend. I dislike her as much as you can dislike someone. I’m hoping they’ll break up before the wedding so she doesn’t come.
Post # 27
Um, and how about my FI’s friend who saw the cross, wording, and other religious symbols on our website and invitations, and *actually said the following*:
“What is all that gay sh*t?”
I have nothing to say to that, except that I apologize if that offended anyone in any way.