(Closed) Anyone regret having a wedding shower?

posted 6 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I think there was only 10 or so at my shower.  It was still fun and I dont regret doing it.   I also dont really think I would have missed it if I didnt do it.  But better to be indifferent after, than wonder and regret not doing it.  But I do think that just 2 weeks before the wedding might feel tight though.  And I’m not sure how people will feel giving a shower gift and then having to give a wedding gift again just two weeks apart. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@ebet24: I’m in a similar situation – I just really am not into it but my mother keeps telling me that I need to do something and that I’ll regret it later.  

I’m also petrified of standing up in front of our guests for the wedding ceremony…it’s good to know I’m not the only one!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

There was only like 10 people at my shower (none of my friends were invited and I didn’t get to say a guest list because it was a surprise). It was still fun and I KNOW I would have totally regreted not having a shower.

Post # 6
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450 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

My Maid/Matron of Honor wanted a list of people for mine, and I made my specific. One section was for a shower only, the other was for a shower or bachlorette party. I just have some family that I DO NOT want at a B Party. SO…. I was told today that the shower will be a luncheon with a TBA date, but the B Party will be the night before our wedding after Rehearsal Dinner. At least I know all 3 of my daughters will be down then so they can attend.

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