(Closed) Anyone think its funny how everyone wants to be “invited” to your wedding?

posted 10 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 32
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51 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Our guestlist is so crazy as it is, I’m one of the only people on the planet not on Facebook, and I kinda want to join now, but won’t because of those people wanting to come to our wedding!! 

Post # 33
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256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

This is why my relationship status is not listed on Facebook!  Also one of the perks to being married abroad!

Post # 34
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62 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

A highschool friend of my Fiance and I, who we haven’t talked to in oh, about 4 years, thought he would be a groomsman. Seriously….and that’s just one example.

Post # 35
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2186 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

yeah i had someone email me asking about how wedding planning was going – i was busy at the time and was answering in short answers and she had the gaul to write back and say “so are you being vague with your answers because im not invited?” seriously who asks that!? not to mention that shes probably NOT invited LOL

Post # 36
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256 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

It is kind of funny in some ways when it happens after you look at it, but at the time it is extremely ackward.

There is a few of my fiances friends who probably won’t be invited because we have super large families and our venue comfortable holds 210 and our list is almost at 285, but came up to us after we got engaged and talked about how they were excited to go to the wedding.

and then there is a couple of my girlfriends that I am not all that close to that seem to think they are going to be bridesmaids. I am not sure if they are going to even be invited to the wedding! and one of them is super jealous of the engagement and never wants to talk about the wedding. which makes it worse.

I have people I don’t even know come up to me and ask if they are invited! It is kind of ackward. Why do people think it is okay?! LOL.

And do any of you have people you barely know or are kind of friends offer to do like a ton of stuff for the wedding and that they are so excited yet you weren’t even really planning on inviting them to the wedding??

lol.. that is the worst.

Post # 37
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1 posts
Wannabee
  • Wedding: November 2011

Yes! OMG. This girl that I barely know and talked to, who lived down the hall from me at university TWO YEARS AGO, expects to be a BRIDESMAID!!!!!!! I’m not freaking kidding. I’m considering a restraining order. It’s creepy. Not to mention, it’s a destination wedding and she’s willing to pay her way to be there. Help!!!!

Post # 38
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3010 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

This post may be two years old, but hot damn, it’s still funny.  I’ve had people openly say they can’t wait to get an invitation in the mail or people try to get some details out of me so they know what to wear.  It’s a wedding for crying outloud.  I never knew people were so determined to be invited to a really initimate, special occasion.  Oh and to spend money.

Post # 38
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Double post.

Post # 39
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3010 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

Triple post.  Seriously WB?!

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