(Closed) Anyone trying to raise their baby to be bilingual?

posted 7 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

you really shouldnt worry about this, if he speaks french to her she will understand and speak french too.

Post # 4
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I don’t have any experience in this just yet, but I will be in the same boat.  I speak Chinese and hope that our kids will be able to pick it up from me speaking to them in it and have my parents around a lot to speak it.  My husband doesnt understand it at all, so it will be impossible to try to converse to him in it.  I watched an interesting video about childrens language development that said they key months are 6-8 months where the child will learn to distinguish and hear the different sounds that languages make, and this is the basis for learning the different languages.  And children were able to learn this simply by being immersed and spoken to by someone, but not through television.  I’ll see if I can find the video later, it was very interesting. 

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

My sister’s husband is Chinese and he speeks Mandarin (but my sister does not).  When their oldest turned 2, they put her in a Chinese speaking day care.  She primarily speaks Chinese there (and speaks some at home too).  She has picked it up very quickly!

Post # 7
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m not a parents but a lot of my family and friends have been in this situation.  They have always put their child in a day care where the non english language is primary.  That way they are completely immersed in that language there.  They’ll have plenty of time and opportunity to pick up English everywhere else.

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2009

My family is bi-lingual except for my mother. My nephew was talked to in english by everyone except my mom. Who would watch him a few hours a day for some time. My nephew went to school in english. Kids are so smart they just pick up second languages quickly. He can speak both spanish and english now and he even writes and reads in spanish, without even going to school for it. Its not perfect but he is bilingual ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 9
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

My niece is bilingual. Her mom and her mom’s family speak spanish and english, and my BIL speaks only english. She seems to have picked up the spanish pretty well.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My friend’s children speak French (nanny), English (mother)and Arabic (father). They were always pretty disciplined about who speaks what. The kids picked it up fine. I do think that you also need to read in both languages so they aren’t illiterate in one of them:)

Post # 11
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2011

Speak almost all french at home, and then when they enter school , they will focus in heavy on english. Kids are like sponges , that its no problem for them. They may however, be underdeveloped in the writing part of it and be verbally very well versed.

My Fiance is bi-lingual and his mom followed that plan. 

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper

Oh, please do it!  I am so sad that I don’t speak or understand French-my dad’s first language. ๐Ÿ™   My mom didn’t speak it.  I have wonderful memories of my grandparents speaking in French, but I never picked it up-because they very seldom spoke it-only when they had distant relatives visit.  ๐Ÿ™ 

Post # 13
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Just my 2 cents. I was raised with ASL and speaking english, and I loved it. I also stayed in a home where the mom spoke Finnish, and the dad spoke English, and the boy would be having a conversation with mom, turn say something to dad, in English, and go back to speaking to mom in Finnish. And mom was the only one that he spoke Finnish to, he had like, grandma and stuff in Finnish. 

Might be a good way for you to pick up a bit of French.

Post # 14
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

I wish my family had taught me Italian. ๐Ÿ™

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I know its not the same but we’ll be introducing sign language as well as english to our daughter. You may want to consider introducing a few basic signs so that if your child gets confused between languages or if words come out half english half french for a little bit you’ll still understand her needs.

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

We plan to do it with our future kiddies but with 3 languages. I’m Filipino-American so I want them to know a little Tagalog and Darling Husband is Swedish. We talk primarily in English at home but since we live in Sweden, Swedish will be the main language. They start teaching English in grade school here so our children would have a head start, plus we plan on taking regular vacations back in California, where my Mom and grandma will surely want to teach their native language.

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